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Thargor View Member Profile	Thargor Jul 30 2010, 12:37 PM Post #1
5th Gear Posts: 1,403 Warn:	I been told for countless times that I am a bad son.....because I don't fetch my mum to stay with me (she's alone after my eldest sis passed away and my dad is working overseas). My wife can't get along with my mum. I been told I am a bad husband for suggesting to fetch my mum to stay with me. I been told I am a bad husband and bad son for deciding that since I can't please everyone, I am just going to choose the option that is best for my kid...and hopefully they do turn out to be the best for my kid. Hehe my white hairs getting a lot nowadays...(I like it though)... Anyone here choose not to allow parents to stay with him cos wifey couldnt get along with your parents? -------------------- I just know there's something dark in me and I hide it. I certainly don't talk about it, but it's there always, this Dark Passenger. And when he's driving, I feel alive, half sick with the thrill of complete wrongness. I don't fight him, I don't want to. He's all I've got. Nothing else could love me, not even... especially not me. Or is that just a lie the Dark Passenger tells me? Because lately there are these moments when I feel connected...it's like the mask is slipping and it scares the hell out of me.

Dj_spike View Member Profile	Dj_spike Jul 30 2010, 12:45 PM \| In Reply To Thargor Post #2
Turbocharged Posts: 9,695 Warn:	Yes, u would go down to the category of a bad son imo You would wanna perhaps intermediate between ur mum and ur wife.... Ur wife jolly knows u are eldest son b4 marrying u... U can have alot of wives(divorce and marry) but u only have one mother all ur life -------------------- ________________________________________________________________________________ PSN ID: Dj_Shahril They call me DJ I am Master Recon's secret friend... I will have to activate him when the BC2 gods fail...... If u are poisoned by the PS3 thread, u have no one to blame but the man in the mirror

Benarsenal View Member Profile	Benarsenal Jul 30 2010, 12:49 PM Post #3
5th Gear Posts: 1,267 Warn:	It's like that filial piety thing all over again. Do what YOU think is right. -------------------- Refer to signature guidelines

Joseph22 View Member Profile	Joseph22 Jul 30 2010, 12:56 PM \| In Reply To Dj_spike Post #4
NOS-ed Posts: 11,514 Warn:	QUOTE (Dj_spike @ Jul 30 2010, 12:45 PM) Yes, u would go down to the category of a bad son imo You would wanna perhaps intermediate between ur mum and ur wife.... Ur wife jolly knows u are eldest son b4 marrying u... U can have alot of wives(divorce and marry) but u only have one mother all ur life that is why we must QC the wife to see if they are willing to leave with MiL before getting married.

Thargor View Member Profile	Thargor Jul 30 2010, 01:01 PM \| In Reply To Dj_spike Post #5
5th Gear Posts: 1,403 Warn:	QUOTE (Dj_spike @ Jul 30 2010, 12:45 PM) Yes, u would go down to the category of a bad son imo You would wanna perhaps intermediate between ur mum and ur wife.... Ur wife jolly knows u are eldest son b4 marrying u... U can have alot of wives(divorce and marry) but u only have one mother all ur life quite impossible to intermediate...i kinda do what I can already. Nowadays just fetch my mum over for dinner/lunch...she gets to play with baby...afterwhich I send her back. I am just thinking...my kid deserve a happy family...my wife rather get a divorce than to stay with my mum...and i need to do whats best for my kid. Hard choices to make, and those are choices one need to make and make peace with from within. -------------------- I just know there's something dark in me and I hide it. I certainly don't talk about it, but it's there always, this Dark Passenger. And when he's driving, I feel alive, half sick with the thrill of complete wrongness. I don't fight him, I don't want to. He's all I've got. Nothing else could love me, not even... especially not me. Or is that just a lie the Dark Passenger tells me? Because lately there are these moments when I feel connected...it's like the mask is slipping and it scares the hell out of me.

Joseph22 View Member Profile	Joseph22 Jul 30 2010, 01:05 PM \| In Reply To Thargor Post #6
NOS-ed Posts: 11,514 Warn:	QUOTE (Thargor @ Jul 30 2010, 01:01 PM) quite impossible to intermediate...i kinda do what I can already. Nowadays just fetch my mum over for dinner/lunch...she gets to play with baby...afterwhich I send her back. I am just thinking...my kid deserve a happy family...my wife rather get a divorce than to stay with my mum...and i need to do whats best for my kid. Hard choices to make, and those are choices one need to make and make peace with from within. pardon me for saying. but your wife got a problem

Ordix View Member Profile	Ordix Jul 30 2010, 01:06 PM \| In Reply To Thargor Post #7
2nd Gear Posts: 247 Warn:	http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybxNkpS5q-g

Dj_spike View Member Profile	Dj_spike Jul 30 2010, 01:07 PM \| In Reply To Joseph22 Post #8
Turbocharged Posts: 9,695 Warn:	QUOTE (Joseph22 @ Jul 30 2010, 01:05 PM) pardon me for saying. but your wife got a problem For the first time, I agree with u -------------------- ________________________________________________________________________________ PSN ID: Dj_Shahril They call me DJ I am Master Recon's secret friend... I will have to activate him when the BC2 gods fail...... If u are poisoned by the PS3 thread, u have no one to blame but the man in the mirror

Galantspeedz View Member Profile	Galantspeedz Jul 30 2010, 01:07 PM \| In Reply To Thargor Post #9
NOS-ed Posts: 14,307 Warn:	QUOTE (Thargor @ Jul 30 2010, 01:01 PM) quite impossible to intermediate...i kinda do what I can already. Nowadays just fetch my mum over for dinner/lunch...she gets to play with baby...afterwhich I send her back. I am just thinking...my kid deserve a happy family...my wife rather get a divorce than to stay with my mum...and i need to do whats best for my kid. Hard choices to make, and those are choices one need to make and make peace with from within. interesting.... her hate for your mum is more than the love for you.....

Freestylers09 View Member Profile	Freestylers09 Jul 30 2010, 01:07 PM Post #10
NOS-ed Posts: 15,388 Warn:	this one good..i like http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4fRPpSYr220...feature=related -------------------- It's not about the price we buying, It's about the price we selling. Caveat Emptor

Joseph22 View Member Profile	Joseph22 Jul 30 2010, 01:09 PM \| In Reply To Dj_spike Post #11
NOS-ed Posts: 11,514 Warn:	QUOTE (Dj_spike @ Jul 30 2010, 01:07 PM) For the first time, I agree with u another one. you not first time liao lah. today maybe make me look so bad

RadX View Member Profile	RadX Jul 30 2010, 01:09 PM Post #12
2Fast2Furious Posts: 27,029 Warn:	I kinda empathise with TS now that these issues are cropping up. Really....i see that these are just the surface of something fundamentally deeper and having him to juggle those roles can be a b!tch....these may just be outpouring as a silent internal cry from within...hmmmm... Take it easy man, and my earlier statements are fully retracted with apologies and hope you do find peace within. Chill and look for inner strength -------------------- CheerX! RadX

RadX View Member Profile	RadX Jul 30 2010, 01:10 PM \| In Reply To Joseph22 Post #13
2Fast2Furious Posts: 27,029 Warn:	QUOTE (Joseph22 @ Jul 30 2010, 01:09 PM) another one. you not first time liao lah. today maybe make me look so bad eh you veri popular today har....basket....can form gay boy club ah....now to get Krado to praise you -------------------- CheerX! RadX

Skunk View Member Profile	Skunk Jul 30 2010, 01:11 PM Post #14
5th Gear Posts: 1,298 Warn:	so what if someone is a bad son. So what if someone is a bad parent (refering to the other very hot thread lol). We're all not perfect, and in being imperfect, it means we're all bad, in varying degrees. I always tell my wife, "I'm a very bad man. So what." Her reply is always, "I like bad men" LOL

Thargor View Member Profile	Thargor Jul 30 2010, 01:11 PM \| In Reply To Galantspeedz Post #15
5th Gear Posts: 1,403 Warn:	QUOTE (Galantspeedz @ Jul 30 2010, 01:07 PM) interesting.... her hate for your mum is more than the love for you..... she doesnt hate my mum...just prefer not to stay with her. -------------------- I just know there's something dark in me and I hide it. I certainly don't talk about it, but it's there always, this Dark Passenger. And when he's driving, I feel alive, half sick with the thrill of complete wrongness. I don't fight him, I don't want to. He's all I've got. Nothing else could love me, not even... especially not me. Or is that just a lie the Dark Passenger tells me? Because lately there are these moments when I feel connected...it's like the mask is slipping and it scares the hell out of me.

Joseph22 View Member Profile	Joseph22 Jul 30 2010, 01:11 PM \| In Reply To RadX Post #16
NOS-ed Posts: 11,514 Warn:	QUOTE (RadX @ Jul 30 2010, 01:10 PM) eh you veri popular today har....basket....can form gay boy club ah....now to get Krado to praise you you mean those who praise me today are all gays? actually how come we got no scare emocon huh??

Dj_spike View Member Profile	Dj_spike Jul 30 2010, 01:12 PM \| In Reply To Thargor Post #17
Turbocharged Posts: 9,695 Warn:	QUOTE (Thargor @ Jul 30 2010, 01:01 PM) quite impossible to intermediate...i kinda do what I can already. Nowadays just fetch my mum over for dinner/lunch...she gets to play with baby...afterwhich I send her back. I am just thinking...my kid deserve a happy family...my wife rather get a divorce than to stay with my mum...and i need to do whats best for my kid. Hard choices to make, and those are choices one need to make and make peace with from within. How u treat ur parents will be a sure indication of how ur kid will treat u in the future.... is this what u want? I have a cousin who chased out his parents staying with him juz because his wife wanted to study for her masters and needed to rent out the room.... Ur wife has clearly indicated by choosing divorce she do not need u as much as u need her... -------------------- ________________________________________________________________________________ PSN ID: Dj_Shahril They call me DJ I am Master Recon's secret friend... I will have to activate him when the BC2 gods fail...... If u are poisoned by the PS3 thread, u have no one to blame but the man in the mirror

RadX View Member Profile	RadX Jul 30 2010, 01:12 PM \| In Reply To Thargor Post #18
2Fast2Furious Posts: 27,029 Warn:	QUOTE (Thargor @ Jul 30 2010, 01:11 PM) she doesnt hate my mum...just prefer not to stay with her. that seems to be just the tip.....there may be deeper issues? -------------------- CheerX! RadX

RadX View Member Profile	RadX Jul 30 2010, 01:13 PM \| In Reply To Dj_spike Post #19
2Fast2Furious Posts: 27,029 Warn:	QUOTE (Dj_spike @ Jul 30 2010, 01:12 PM) How u treat ur parents will be a sure indication of how ur kid will treat u in the future.... is this what u want? I have a cousin who chased out his parents staying with him juz because his wife wanted to study for her masters and needed to rent out the room.... Ur wife has clearly indicated by choosing divorce she do not need u as much as u need her... reading between the lines.....one can concur to believe that -------------------- CheerX! RadX

Galantspeedz View Member Profile	Galantspeedz Jul 30 2010, 01:13 PM \| In Reply To Thargor Post #20
NOS-ed Posts: 14,307 Warn:	QUOTE (Thargor @ Jul 30 2010, 01:11 PM) she doesnt hate my mum...just prefer not to stay with her. if it makes you feel better.. her hate of staying with your mum is more than the love for you... ?

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