Is my ex-wife's behaviour acceptable?

[Jj5599]

 

 

Today damn sad day for me, my baby was hospitalized last night for stomach flu. She is alright now.

 

But I am damn angry with my ex-wife whom notified me via EMAIL that my child has been hospitalized 12 hours ago! By email???? I rushed down to the hospital within 15 mins to see my baby. When I arrived, it seemed like I was the last person to know as my sis in-laws were there with gifts already!

 

I F-ed my ex-wife left right center and told her she didnt respect me as baby's father and how can a person send email in such a situation! My ex-wife being very confrontational type and dont want to lose mentality called me 'lower than an animal' for saying that I want to be notified other than email in an emergency!

[Porker]

I think you should move on with your life and get over whatever she has done or will do.

 

What do you expect us to say here seriously? That we sympathize with your situation? You're still gonna be pissed.

 

Do yourself a favor and move on. And stop chasing after young girls. It's definitely a rebound thing.

[Wasted]

wah bro i sympathize for you...

 

email? really WTF.

 

as long the baby ok, just cool down. always think of your kid.

 

 

[Amuroboy]

bro, the kid is staying with who?

[Jj5599]

I will move on but it's hard if my ex-wife keeps throwing crap like this at me

[Tigershark1976]

take it easy.... many of such stories.... as a man, we are always at the loosing end. You are consider lucky liao...There are cases that are worst than you.. 1 of my friend even dont get a chance to see his son after divorce, bring the wife to court also no use, waste money only...

[Dinosaka]

At least she emailed u....she hv the right not to even bother telling u...

 

Suck it n move on:)

[Porker]

I will move on but it's hard if my ex-wife keeps throwing crap like this at me

 

Technically you haven't moved on if you're affected by her crap

 

And the more you're affected by it... The more she's going to dish out to you

[Piyopico]

Try to move on. It is hard but you still gotto try, otherwise your life will be consumed by bitterness and angst.

 

Many guys go on to meet someone else more suitable and you can have kids with someone else again.

 

Focus on the good things for now.

[Jj5599]

She is the animal here

[Dinosaka]

All of humans r animals la...seriously we r!!

[Tonyng]

 

You have a right to be angry.

 

She will in years to come systematically exclude you from your own baby's life.

 

Be firm and stand your ground. Let it be known such manipulations are a no-no.

 

Play hard but sometimes play soft - think of effect on kid too. They detect adult tensions from young age.

 

I am assuming you are a good father before and want to continue to be.

 

 

[Rockaphonics]

Shes not showing respect bro. Then again, many females are like this (sorry for generalizing). Thats why shes your ex, you're better than her. Move on and take it easy.

[Rockaphonics]

At least she emailed u....she hv the right not to even bother telling u...

 

Suck it n move on:)

 

Are you a man? Its precisely due to your type of mentality thats why some woman think they have pu**y power.

How can you say the father has no right?

Do you always suck things up?

[PSP415]

Glad that yr baby is much better and on e mend.

 

Can empathise yr situation but for e sake of still be kept informed on yr baby's well being, well or unwell, best to rein in yr temper and dun scold yr ex left right centre e moment u see her. Watever her reason(s) or excuse(s) for using email rather den a call or sms, perhaps she wan to avoid e type of hostile teleconversations/confrontational smses that will further strain or drain both of u emotionally/mentally.

 

Regardless, do move on and seriously, e child is as much yr baby as hers hence, will be given e love and care needed. Hopefully, time will heal watever hurts/wounds and allow e current hostile relationship to at best, be a more amicable one so that yr baby will nt be torn in future to make decisions that may nt be to either parent's advantage eg. she may decide to see less of u to avoid making her mum upset cos each visit will set volcanoes erupting between e ex and u.

 

Take care and be calm, life goes on and so should u.

 

Safe ride

 

Cheers

 

[Jman888]

Today damn sad day for me, my baby was hospitalized last night for stomach flu. She is alright now.

 

But I am damn angry with my ex-wife whom notified me via EMAIL that my child has been hospitalized 12 hours ago! By email???? I rushed down to the hospital within 15 mins to see my baby. When I arrived, it seemed like I was the last person to know as my sis in-laws were there with gifts already!

 

I F-ed my ex-wife left right center and told her she didnt respect me as baby's father and how can a person send email in such a situation! My ex-wife being very confrontational type and dont want to lose mentality called me 'lower than an animal' for saying that I want to be notified other than email in an emergency!

 

 

To be frank to you, I believe she is over with you and you arer the last person she would inform. Stomach flu is not serious sickness, and seriously, if you are the first person she can think of in such a situation, then you guys won't be divorce in the first place. Face it, she has the custody and not you.

 

 

 

 

[Dinosaka]

You have a right to be angry.

 

She will in years to come systematically exclude you from your own baby's life.

 

Be firm and stand your ground. Let it be known such manipulations are a no-no.

 

Play hard but sometimes play soft - think of effect on kid too. They detect adult tensions from young age.

 

I am assuming you are a good father before and want to continue to be.

 

Y fight a losing battle...get on wif life n find better wife settle down n njoy life...

 

Dont give shitty advice la...

[Kyrios]

Not trying to be chek ark here but most young women will freak out if they learn if you got a kid in tow..may be a blessing in disguise if your son is with ur wife..