Ysc3 Twincharged March 21, 2013 Share March 21, 2013 per the question, be either the male or the female party who cannot conceive ? ↡ Advertisement Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jman888 Moderator March 21, 2013 Share March 21, 2013 many couple nowadays do not want children, i guess to them is no loss. But for couple who like children, it is quite painful for them, but there is always alternative like adoption. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mockngbrd Supersonic March 21, 2013 Share March 21, 2013 Can hei-shi hei-sho can liao Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
WTF 4th Gear March 21, 2013 Share March 21, 2013 (edited) if you need a companion, a gf is good enough without all the commitments. if for housekeeping etc, hiring a maid or engaging a cleaning company is better. if for sex, going to GL is cheaper and more fun...... you don't actually need to buy a cow if you just want to drink milk......... Edited March 21, 2013 by WTF Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joseph22 Turbocharged March 21, 2013 Share March 21, 2013 per the question, be either the male or the female party who cannot conceive ? Depend on your moral value. if you think that sex/make love is within married couple and you really want to have sex. then of course must marry. if you think otherwise. then personal call liao. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zanter 3rd Gear March 21, 2013 Share March 21, 2013 per the question, be either the male or the female party who cannot conceive ? How would you know if cannot conceive? You mean like try to get the gal pregnant before marriage? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Myxilplix Turbocharged March 21, 2013 Share March 21, 2013 you don't actually need to buy a cow if you just want to drink milk......... My father been telling me this since i was young "Why buy a cow when milk is so cheap?". I think he regrets it now cos i'm in my mid 30s and have zero inclination to settle down/get married. Nowadays i have to deal with the parental hinting about "bringing a gf home", "getting married", "settling down", "giving them grandchildren", "finding a companion even if you don't get married" etc etc, especially during celebration type meals (new year, cny reunion dinner, birthday dinners etc). Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamesc Hypersonic March 21, 2013 Share March 21, 2013 Depend on your moral value. if you think that sex/make love is within married couple and you really want to have sex. then of course must marry. if you think otherwise. then personal call liao. I think the question is about conceive lah not consummate! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
WTF 4th Gear March 21, 2013 Share March 21, 2013 My father been telling me this since i was young "Why buy a cow when milk is so cheap?". I think he regrets it now cos i'm in my mid 30s and have zero inclination to settle down/get married. Nowadays i have to deal with the parental hinting about "bringing a gf home", "getting married", "settling down", "giving them grandchildren", "finding a companion even if you don't get married" etc etc, especially during celebration type meals (new year, cny reunion dinner, birthday dinners etc). I had the same problem last time but my parents didn't dared ask me directly. So my bro kena asked and he came asking me as my ex-gf and I were together for more than 10 yrs and there's no sign of settling down. They even got upset and asked why when I finally broke up with my ex-gf.......... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davidklt 6th Gear March 21, 2013 Share March 21, 2013 Marriage is so much more than treating each other as a birth production machine. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamesc Hypersonic March 21, 2013 Share March 21, 2013 However if J22 is right then I for one would like to state very clearly that I do not believe in sex before marriage. My wife to be and I were having sex in the morning before the wedding and we were late at the ROM and it was so embarassing to keep everyone waiting. I had really dirty looks from my FIL and MIL and then realised I rush out and forgot to zip up properly. So 1 or 2 days before the wedding is OK but not in the morning before the marriage itself. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Benarsenal Turbocharged March 21, 2013 Share March 21, 2013 Obviously depends la. But even if cannot have children, there's still something called adoption mah. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Throttle2 Supersonic March 21, 2013 Share March 21, 2013 If dont want children, best dont get married, and sign your financial wealth away, guys! Muayhahahaha Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pocus Turbocharged March 21, 2013 Share March 21, 2013 (edited) Marriage is so much more than treating each other as a birth production machine. Very simple yet profound words from Davidtkl and I truly agree. I think people who marry just to have kids at descendants are so parse and no longer application in today's society, esp in Singapore where you barely survive yourself. Edited March 21, 2013 by Pocus Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Picnic06-Biante15 Supersonic March 21, 2013 Share March 21, 2013 However if J22 is right then I for one would like to state very clearly that I do not believe in sex before marriage. My wife to be and I were having sex in the morning before the wedding and we were late at the ROM and it was so embarassing to keep everyone waiting. I had really dirty looks from my FIL and MIL and then realised I rush out and forgot to zip up properly. So 1 or 2 days before the wedding is OK but not in the morning before the marriage itself. ya..... tire out after having such fun and forget to set alarm clock .... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Myxilplix Turbocharged March 21, 2013 Share March 21, 2013 I thought people marry is to apply for HDB? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
VellfireS 4th Gear March 21, 2013 Share March 21, 2013 However if J22 is right then I for one would like to state very clearly that I do not believe in sex before marriage. My wife to be and I were having sex in the morning before the wedding and we were late at the ROM and it was so embarassing to keep everyone waiting. I had really dirty looks from my FIL and MIL and then realised I rush out and forgot to zip up properly. So 1 or 2 days before the wedding is OK but not in the morning before the marriage itself. very good breakfast I see.. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joseph22 Turbocharged March 21, 2013 Share March 21, 2013 I think the question is about conceive lah not consummate! you can still have sex even if you cannot conceive mah ↡ Advertisement Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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