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Posted 22 October 2009 - 11:38 PM

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I am a parent of 3 kids myself quite concerned leh..I was told by my sister one of the student who committed suicide is my niece's classmate in S..gk..g Primary..reallypityful and my deeepest condolences to the family members.........


What is our education system trying to achieve?

Any parent bros here wana give good tips on educating kids..please share

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Posted 22 October 2009 - 11:45 PM

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I am a parent of 3 kids myself quite concerned leh..I was told by my sister one of the student who committed suicide is my niece's classmate in S..gk..g Primary..reallypityful and my deeepest condolences to the family members.........


What is our education system trying to achieve?

Any parent bros here wana give good tips on educating kids..please share


well i'm not a parent myself, but i believe in being half stern and half soft at times....

generally, do not over induce stress on the child by demanding extraordinary grades.... guide them when they are wrong...this was wat my parents did, in the end, i still grew up decently, in the past, ppl would say, if u dun control ur child, later he run amok and get into bad company how

try to be on friend terms with the kid and not parent to child terms....the child will tend to open up in this case...

for me, when i teach my nephew, i tend to be harsh first followed by soft but have to depend whether he's willing to listen first....

juz my opinions....
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Posted 22 October 2009 - 11:47 PM

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any report in the news??

i dun believe if the parents of the kid claimed they did not put pressure in their kids shakehead.gif
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Posted 23 October 2009 - 12:43 AM

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very sad to hear tis...know their hod personally but still cant get to know wats goin on...but i noe tat their sch standard quite high though its a neighbouring sch

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Posted 23 October 2009 - 01:15 AM

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Posted 23 October 2009 - 02:38 AM

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I am a parent of 3 kids myself quite concerned leh..I was told by my sister one of the student who committed suicide is my niece's classmate in S..gk..g Primary..reallypityful and my deeepest condolences to the family members.........


What is our education system trying to achieve?

Any parent bros here wana give good tips on educating kids..please share


bro, dun worry so much... unless u are one gan jiong spider parent, if not juz educate ur children well is more dan enough le... thumbsup.gif
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Posted 23 October 2009 - 03:18 AM

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teach the child to be independent, build their character, train them to accept & learn from failure.

over-protective is no good, pressuring the child to always be No.1 will likely lead to unacceptance of failure.

while grooming your child to excel in all areas, it is important to let them know that it is also ok to stop and take a break and let other take the lead.

sometimes, falling a step backward may lead a long way in life.

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Posted 23 October 2009 - 05:28 AM

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I am a parent of 3 kids myself quite concerned leh..I was told by my sister one of the student who committed suicide is my niece's classmate in S..gk..g Primary..reallypityful and my deeepest condolences to the family members.........


What is our education system trying to achieve?

Any parent bros here wana give good tips on educating kids..please share


I dont believe the education system is the reason for this. Rather, i believe the stress the kid from their own family and the support system from their family once they do not what they should be getting.

Come on, the kid is still so young. Why push them till that stage? Their own family is their whole world. Being understanding and supportive is the way to get them back to the racing track.

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Posted 23 October 2009 - 06:18 AM

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I do FEEL for the students, the FACKING EDUCATION SYSTEM really push them to the limit... "bo kor leng" bo tai bo chi commit suicide for no reason right ?

You know what....... the news paper no report leh !

Sianz, I still no 'O' levels

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Posted 23 October 2009 - 07:00 AM

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one was reported. you mean there were 2 others? this is very bad

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Posted 23 October 2009 - 08:34 AM

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yeah nowadays parents.. shakehead.gif

yesterday evening anyone heard class 91.3 the married man? the kena pluck session, rod was plucking a mum saying her son trying to date his daughter both pri 5 and he claim they both hanky panky at hdb staircase. the mother very defensive, first thing scold rod for not teaching his daughter well and telling his daughter not to seduce other people's son hur.gif

although its all plucking, but the reply from the mother is real, really CMI. thumbsdown.gif

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Posted 23 October 2009 - 08:41 AM

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I am a parent of 3 kids myself quite concerned leh..I was told by my sister one of the student who committed suicide is my niece's classmate in S..gk..g Primary..reallypityful and my deeepest condolences to the family members.........


What is our education system trying to achieve?

Any parent bros here wana give good tips on educating kids..please share


Stress level getting higher & higher .... shakehead.gif shakehead.gif

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Posted 23 October 2009 - 08:51 AM

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sadly, such cases happens more often then reported. let's face it, the education system these days is a super pressure oven. the standard is way ahead of our times. and parents are mostly busy at work and tired after that. children are feeling the heat of the rat race too, in the form of school work.

such cases will happen again and again, just make sure it doesnt happen in your home. there's nothing much we can do as we are not the education authorities.
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Posted 23 October 2009 - 08:53 AM

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I do FEEL for the students, the FACKING EDUCATION SYSTEM really push them to the limit... "bo kor leng" bo tai bo chi commit suicide for no reason right ?

You know what....... the news paper no report leh !

Sianz, I still no 'O' levels

if the newspaper report, everyday you will read about suicide cases. then what is the point of such reports if the same thing happens on a daily basis ?

Edited by Vextan, 23 October 2009 - 08:53 AM.

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Posted 23 October 2009 - 09:00 AM

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Where's this news from? Can't find it anywhere...
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Posted 23 October 2009 - 09:07 AM

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nowadays the syllabus are getting tougher. n parents r pressuring the kids from young very pitiful. as soon as they start to walk n talk, parents send their kids to all kinds of classes n schools. as young as 2 or 3 yrs old the kids start to b pressured. where is the time for them to enjoy their childhood??

let me ask those parents who's tekan-ing their kids now...when u were young...did ur parents send u to classes at 3yrs old?did u learn piano or ballet at 4 yrs old?? i know a guy, who scolded his kids teacher when at a parents-teacher meeting. teacher said the kid not doing too well. so he asked if his kid is naughty or unattentive in school. so teacher said no. so he jus said his kid has done his best.

no 2 kid has the same ability. ur kid may b smart even wif no extra learning. but someone else's kid can sutdy for 14hrs a day n still not b as smart. so, as long as we make sure our kids put their best in their studies, it's gd enuf. no point putting pressure n suffer dire consequences.
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Posted 23 October 2009 - 09:27 AM

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bro, both my wife and i also heard that 'kena pluck' segment and were disappointed with the mother's reply. she sounds educated but unethical replies.

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Posted 23 October 2009 - 09:29 AM

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Where is the source?

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Posted 23 October 2009 - 09:33 AM

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haha.. don't be surprised. even babies as young as 6 months are also attending these classes. I've got a colleague who send his 2 year old daughter to some brain development thing each week. I find that it's crazy and like what you say, they won't enjoy their childhood.

I have a 2 year old daughter, she currently spending 1 hour a week going for a parent-toddler class, that kind of play play class. nothing serious.

frankly, i pity those 2 or 3 year olds being sent to classes at such young age.



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Posted 23 October 2009 - 09:48 AM

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actually for those who wants their kid to have some sort of "brain development training", I suggest start letting them play chess at the age of 7-8. It teaches them to analyse and anticipate which are traits that are extremely important in their studies and in their adult life. We need these two traits all the time regardless work or driving. And I have observe that guys who do well in my company have some chess playing passion in their younger days.

And who knows, maybe you have a world chess champion kid one day.....


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