Donut Supercharged October 26, 2016 Share October 26, 2016 been there done that. I sweep the floor...mop the floor. Tell her to relax and you know what.......she go and do other stuff like rearrangging the wardrobes and cupboard! She even make noise if i go and make my own teh-tarik....and i keep the kitchen clean after hor! My son also sometime angry with her for rearrangging his wardrobe and oni recently my daughter wardrobe also kana. Somebody implied that maybe she has ocd... ↡ Advertisement Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donut Supercharged October 26, 2016 Share October 26, 2016 Guys...sori hor. I also in this situation! Doctor say my wife's heart is like a time bomb. Anytime can go! I feel sad but i simply refuse to talk with her about her illness! And we always ends up quarelling about it as there is so much that i can do! I rather we talked about death and the consequences for those that we will leave behind! Doctor have given her many medication but she had allergies to all of them resulting in rashes and very bad boils! I really stress but if she mentioned anything about her condition my stress level will go up! I can laugh i can joke but deep inside i very sad! sorry to hear this about yr wife. keep strong, bro! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Weez911 Supersonic October 26, 2016 Share October 26, 2016 Those who have anxiety disorders or depression please feel free to pm me. I got a good shrink to recommend. Disclaimer: I'm not a shrink or doctor. 5 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Evillusion Supersonic October 26, 2016 Share October 26, 2016 honestly, yes, i think she has some degree of OCD and possibly other mental issues. Go see a shrink if she's willing to.....ya..i think thats why she has the heart problem. She thinks she is losing control of the household! Somethings i rather not talk lar....i not perfect hubby but i try to be as good as i can. sorry to hear this about yr wife. keep strong, bro!thanks bro..... 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chickenfarm Turbocharged October 26, 2016 Share October 26, 2016 Those who have anxiety disorders or depression please feel free to pm me. I got a good shrink to recommend. Disclaimer: I'm not a shrink or doctor. Claimer: You're a patient 4 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
RadX Moderator October 26, 2016 Author Share October 26, 2016 Evii, Holiday is coming. Maybe a holiday trip to change the mood. Suggest to go to coast/ facing sea location; eg Gold Coast, Phuket, Jeju, Pulau Redang, Desaru. The chillax session + limitless, open view can help one move out of one's cocoon. Radx, in the news it mentioned the MTBF of transplanted kidney is 12 yrs, is that the general guideline? and what is the recourse after? Also there is a need to take anti-reject/immune drugs for the whole 12yr? How much do the drugs cost a month? MTBF depends on how the patient takes care of themselves. Some have lived way beyond that and 40 yrs is now the oldest survivor. IT is how much we take care as we go along. I stay active and am focussed and look after my self as much as i can Anti-rejection is for life. For me is $700/ month and for me is free for life. I mentioend in my otehr thread on medishield plus and how it really was a boon that I took it BEFORE i got my condition. For now and for life, it is FOC. Can chk my othter thread on medishield Had a health scare a few years back and that changed my perspective of life a little, more YOLO and spending more time with family and close friends (it is fading but still there). Getting a transplant and recognizing you are on borrowed time must have had a far greater impact on one's life. This thread is great, a reminder to all to review and reorientate priorities and from people who we sort of know. gd on you bro and yes, te immediate support like the family and the overall circle of friends is important around you. Take care and live th emoment 3 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Evillusion Supersonic October 26, 2016 Share October 26, 2016 MTBF depends on how the patient takes care of themselves. Some have lived way beyond that and 40 yrs is now the oldest survivor. IT is how much we take care as we go along. I stay active and am focussed and look after my self as much as i can Anti-rejection is for life. For me is $700/ month and for me is free for life. I mentioend in my otehr thread on medishield plus and how it really was a boon that I took it BEFORE i got my condition. For now and for life, it is FOC. Can chk my othter thread on medishield gd on you bro and yes, te immediate support like the family and the overall circle of friends is important around you. Take care and live th emoment wah...bro! For life medication is seriously no joke. Hope your optimistic view of life rubs on to others who may have the same predicament as yours! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
RadX Moderator October 26, 2016 Author Share October 26, 2016 wah...bro! For life medication is seriously no joke. Hope your optimistic view of life rubs on to others who may have the same predicament as yours! is ok lah, we look at is as another way of living life! May seem big to some but overall, you realise its a phase of life. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Evillusion Supersonic October 26, 2016 Share October 26, 2016 is ok lah, we look at is as another way of living life! May seem big to some but overall, you realise its a phase of life. so true.....some dont see their blessings but make noise about not getting the latest note 7.... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soya Supersonic October 26, 2016 Share October 26, 2016 Is this why people YOLO?YOLO to drive a car they really desire & enjoy every sec can understand. But more common is YOLO to keep up wif the joneses.... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
RadX Moderator October 26, 2016 Author Share October 26, 2016 so true.....some dont see their blessings but make noise about not getting the latest note 7.... LOL...BURN!!!! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
A_korusawa 5th Gear October 26, 2016 Share October 26, 2016 (edited) some say . . . when you are born naked, you go back naked too; so its a blessing if you can let go my say . . . . you are the only one crying when you are born into this world; everyone around you are laughing, right? it'd be your best deal if you are able to die laughing with everyone crying around you! well, its certainly not easy . . . . ? enjoy the good life you have built everyone! Edited October 26, 2016 by A_korusawa 4 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matrix0405 5th Gear October 26, 2016 Share October 26, 2016 ya..i think thats why she has the heart problem. She thinks she is losing control of the household! Somethings i rather not talk lar....i not perfect hubby but i try to be as good as i can. thanks bro..... What is her heart condition called? 100 bpm is slight high but is still normal. Many w/ 100 are able to exercise/swim with no problem. Some ppl naturally have high resting heart rate. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Evillusion Supersonic October 26, 2016 Share October 26, 2016 What is her heart condition called? 100 bpm is slight high but is still normal. Many w/ 100 are able to exercise/swim with no problem. Some ppl naturally have high resting heart rate.120bpm....started a few yrs back with the occasional pain in the chest. Now the pain is not only frequent its constant. Last yr i had to massage and press the area around the wrist frequently cos she said it reduces the pain there and recently her ankle also started to give her the same prob......LOL...BURN!!!!hahaha....it will literally blow up in their face. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jman888 Moderator October 26, 2016 Share October 26, 2016 Thanks bro....i know i am in denial mode maybe thats why i refuse to talk about her heart problems. I always has my daughter's interest in my thoughts as my oc has been there for her since day 1 and at 11 i am sure she will be very badly affected when the day comes now or in the distance future! I have tried coaxing to see the doctor again or see a specialist but she always refused saying they cant do much! Thats why i get frustated when she wants to talk about her heart problem. Told her many times to please talk about other things instead of her illness....but haiz.. 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Evillusion Supersonic October 26, 2016 Share October 26, 2016 (edited) just manage to come into this thread, sorry to hear about your wife problem. i feel that some women will choose to ignore their health problem, think that one day if the problem worsen they will just go rather than doing more diagnosis and knowing more problems along the way. In their mind, they also know that the men will be stronger to handle the situation after they leave. Hence their priority to take care of the kids and family rather than let them worry about her. yup.....so true. They rather see the family happy than they themselves. But enough of my probs......there are others who are worst off! Just need a space to rant off about my probs......thats all.... Edited October 26, 2016 by Eviilusion Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fuelsaver Supercharged October 26, 2016 Share October 26, 2016 been there done that. I sweep the floor...mop the floor. Tell her to relax and you know what.......she go and do other stuff like rearrangging the wardrobes and cupboard! She even make noise if i go and make my own teh-tarik....and i keep the kitchen clean after hor! My son also sometime angry with her for rearrangging his wardrobe and oni recently my daughter wardrobe also kana. Somebody implied that maybe she has ocd... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Evillusion Supersonic October 26, 2016 Share October 26, 2016 she's trying to keep herself occupied so that she can stop thinking about her condition.i think so.....but she always reminds me of her conditions. Thats why i am stressed out......i rather talk about life and death and our children! ↡ Advertisement Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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