Discuss: Married and want to have kids?

[Mllcg]

If married, would you actually want a kid in singapore, not at all, or overseas?

 

for myself, i wont want kids AT ALL. simply put, the money used to bring the kid up is

[Toothiewabbit]

More choose not to have kids, not due only to high costs of bringing up a child but maybe unwilling to give up personal ambitions/freedoms/lifestyles.

 

[TVT]

Married couples should have a kid (at least one) to complete the family. And Singapore is a great place to raise a kid.

 

Just my opinion (no offense to anyone) - IF a married couple doesn't want to have kid, then why need to marry?

[Tleslie]

are we struggling to make a living?

wat abt our next generation?

[Thaiyotakamli]

Married couples should have a kid (at least one) to complete the family. And Singapore is a great place to raise a kid.

 

Just my opinion (no offense to anyone) - IF a married couple doesn't want to have kid, then why need to marry?

Married with cohabit the difference only law recognition

[Jamesc]

Married with cohabit the difference only law recognition

Dun get married can pay less tax.

 

[Thaiyotakamli]

Dun get married can pay less tax.

 

Get married can buy hdb

[Doosan]

Married couples should have a kid (at least one) to complete the family.

And Singapore is a great place to raise a kid.

Just my opinion (no offense to anyone)

IF a married couple doesn't want to have kid, then why need to marry?

 

 

my neighbour son got married 15yrs ago.

before proposal girl said i dnt want to hv kid.

OK to them, both hv dogs, cats, birds....

 

last yr, they gave away pets as the wife wanted to hv kid.

the 44yr old wife finally gave birth to a boy.

now she ia again pregnant.

[Toothiewabbit]

Get married can buy hdb

have HDB means have to pay SP services/Singtel/conservancy/property tax etc etc

[Ysc3]

forgo the car and one will have an extra $1k + a month to spend already.

[Felipe]

Married couples should have a kid (at least one) to complete the family. And Singapore is a great place to raise a kid.

 

Just my opinion (no offense to anyone) - IF a married couple doesn't want to have kid, then why need to marry?

Buy flat, anyway u dun marry cos u wana hv kids. That shd not b the main reason at least

[Ahseng]

If married, would you actually want a kid in singapore, not at all, or overseas?

 

for myself, i wont want kids AT ALL. simply put, the money used to bring the kid up is

 

i used to think like u, but my daughter is the best thing that happened to me. You won't be bothered about how much u are going to spend on her after seeing her smile.

[Carfanzy]

why not. definitely want two or three kids

[Megaweb]

Having kid(s) is a new chapter of life ....

 

[Thaiyotakamli]

sorry ah i see the TS felt having kids is a big expense and liability, how about malay or indian family with 4 or more kids?

[Shorty]

If u only think abt money...then better dont hv kids. Having kids is not abt the money spent.

[VellfireS]

If u only think abt money...then better dont hv kids. Having kids is not abt the money spent.

 

Wow.. Agree 102% boss..

[Watwheels]

End of the day the issue is still with money money money. Dun see the 10cent coin as if it's a 22" sports rim lah.

 

You go after lifestyle after a while also sian what. Dan you and your other half come home from work nothing to look forward to. No joy in the family. If you dun want kids better dun get married too early otherwise both of you will be sian of each other very quickly.

 

It's always the same old story. Haven't even take the first step already thinking of the worst possible scenario as if the baby will suck dry your bank account. Get married first dan say lah.

 

I can tell you having a child of your own is priceless. You cannot measure your flesh & blood using money. Aiya, go interview your own parents. I'm pretty sure back dan life was just as tough when having a kid. If your parents back dan think like you now, everything baby means $$$$$$$$$. You won't even exist today.