Jman888 Moderator June 30, 2014 Share June 30, 2014 (edited) 10 ways to reconnect with your spouse Written by Karen Mira Is the romance with your spouse dwindling down? Don’t let it completely disappear. Read more to learn how to rekindle the passion to strengthen your marriage! 1. Don't Give Up The key to a successful marriage is not giving up on it. Constant effort is needed in having a happy marriage. Do not give up when trying to reconnect with your spouse. 2. Connect Emotionally Talking out your emotions might be corny or difficult for some but this shouldn’t be the case for married couples. Reconnect with your spouse by talking about things on an emotional level – let your guard down! 3. Prioritise Sex Sex is important in a marriage, it holds the couple together and helps you'll reconnect on an emotional and physical level. Even if you find yourself worn out after a long day - ensure you make time for one another. 4. Take Time To Smell The Roses Take time to relax with one another - we often find ourselves too caught up in living that we forget to appreciate the things and people around us. 5. Go On Holiday When the pressure of work and handling the children becomes too much, hire a baby sitter and get away together even if just for a night. Being away from home and your responsibilities can do wonders with helping you reconnect with your spouse. 6. Do Something Special Without needing any reason or occasion, do something special for your spouse. Massage their feet, take over the chores or buy a pint of their favourite ice cream. These little things are a big deal to your spouse and it will surely be noticed. 7. Be Silly Slip down a slide, dance in the rain or just run mindlessly around the park. Doing silly things together can illicit a lot of much-needed laughs. 8. Embrace Your Differences You married your spouse despite your differences. Now, show them that you have truly accepted those differences by engaging in things that they truly enjoy. If they’re obsessed with mountain biking, go with them even if you won’t aren’t the best at it. Use that time to take candid photos of them while they’re in their element. 9. Be Affectionate Public displays of affection are often a hands-off discussion for married couples. However, do not stop giving hugs and kisses to your spouse even when in the midst of other people. If hugging and kissing feels too much, holding hands should suffice. 10. Show Appreciation Appreciation is often absent in shaky marriages. Make it a habit to appreciate your spouse by acknowledging all his efforts and contributions. If he takes out the trash each night, thank him (her). after the pinkdot, you should now reconnect with your spouse, i mean the man & woman type. do the 10 things above and your relationship should be quite solid in your marriage (of course its a two way traffic). Edited June 30, 2014 by Jman888 ↡ Advertisement 11 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tigerwoods Turbocharged June 30, 2014 Share June 30, 2014 there will be no divorces, if the couple just leave PRIDE outside their house. 7 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mustank Hypersonic June 30, 2014 Share June 30, 2014 great thread!!!! 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Toothiewabbit Supersonic June 30, 2014 Share June 30, 2014 In every argument, man should always have the last word : yes dear 10 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jman888 Moderator June 30, 2014 Author Share June 30, 2014 there will be no divorces, if the couple just leave PRIDE outside their house. like dancing cha cha, some time also have to step backward lah. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tohto Hypersonic June 30, 2014 Share June 30, 2014 My wife spend more time on the phone than talking to me She always said 'old husband old wife' already, nothing much to talk.. 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Watwheels Supersonic June 30, 2014 Share June 30, 2014 Is this when your mistress or gf dump you? 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tigerwoods Turbocharged June 30, 2014 Share June 30, 2014 My wife spend more time on the phone than talking to me She always said 'old husband old wife' already, nothing much to talk.. so sad... some will say they have sex talk exchanges everyday... Like F U... and F U back... 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jman888 Moderator June 30, 2014 Author Share June 30, 2014 so sad... some will say they have sex talk exchanges everyday... Like F U... and F U back... a bit of F U still ok, too many F U will start a fight liao Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jman888 Moderator June 30, 2014 Author Share June 30, 2014 My wife spend more time on the phone than talking to me She always said 'old husband old wife' already, nothing much to talk.. 'old husband old wife' become taking for granted, maybe you should create a 'crisis' for her to rethink about it Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Myxilplix Turbocharged June 30, 2014 Share June 30, 2014 Perhaps if people were more discerning about whom they married and why they wanted getting married? Instead of just getting married for the sake of HDB or just because "we've been dating for awhile" or pressure from relatives or because all their friends are getting married? Just sayin', yo. 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tigerwoods Turbocharged June 30, 2014 Share June 30, 2014 'old husband old wife' become taking for granted, maybe you should create a 'crisis' for her to rethink about it that is why many ah lao created the ATB XMM mistress crisis but end up the crisis is more fun... 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ender Hypersonic June 30, 2014 Share June 30, 2014 Having children and and don't stop there, be committed to give the best for the children. If both have this same goal, things should work. If one lack in this area, then shit happen. 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tjkbeluga 5th Gear June 30, 2014 Share June 30, 2014 Cheh, I thought this post is about 10 different sex position.... 3 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jman888 Moderator June 30, 2014 Author Share June 30, 2014 Cheh, I thought this post is about 10 different sex position.... That one kama got 1001 pattern Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vhtfhwlego Supercharged June 30, 2014 Share June 30, 2014 Cheh, I thought this post is about 10 different sex position.... I was already thinking how the 10 positions.1 - PCC left hand 2 - PCC right hand 3 - BJ 4 - BF 5 - Front entrance 6 - Rear entry 7/8/9/10? Elbows, knees & armpits? 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tjkbeluga 5th Gear June 30, 2014 Share June 30, 2014 Pix in point 2. I wonder how the hubby can focus on looking at the photo... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sosaria Turbocharged June 30, 2014 Share June 30, 2014 Pix in point 2. I wonder how the hubby can focus on looking at the photo... That's the reason (or 2 reasons) why the woman's tummy big big and they are looking at ultrasound photo mah... ↡ Advertisement 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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