Watwheels Supersonic May 9, 2021 Share May 9, 2021 1 hour ago, zipping said: 5-year-old girl drowns at condo pool after mum left her alone for 20 minutes http://www.asiaone.com/singapore/5-year-old-girl-drowns-condo-pool-after-mum-left-her-alone-20-minutes?utm_source=mobileapp&utm_medium=social-media&utm_campaign=native-share This one confirm the mother is negligent. So boh chap. Still want to blame the passerby and suspect him of pushing their daugther. Wtf. ↡ Advertisement 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vid Hypersonic May 9, 2021 Share May 9, 2021 1 minute also cannot... 20 min 🤦♂️ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Watwheels Supersonic May 9, 2021 Share May 9, 2021 Does the mother know how to swim? Seems like dunno, have to even look for help. These ppl are so confident. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lala81 Hypersonic May 9, 2021 Share May 9, 2021 Think i need to show my kids this. 2 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chongster 6th Gear May 9, 2021 Share May 9, 2021 1 hour ago, Watwheels said: This one confirm the mother is negligent. So boh chap. Still want to blame the passerby and suspect him of pushing their daugther. Wtf. I think sometimes with grieving parents just indulge their unreasonableness a bit is also a way to show sympathy and support. it was the same with the boy who fell through the parapet of a shopping center a while back. They know deep down there is no one to blame but they just can’t square it 5 2 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kopites Supersonic May 9, 2021 Share May 9, 2021 "Faulting others is a way to lessen one pain of losing a loved one." There is a term describing such behaviour. Slip my mind. Couldn't remember now. 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gizmore Supercharged May 9, 2021 Share May 9, 2021 I'm sure many forumers are parents and would never leave a young child unattended at swimming pool. Really do not know what is mental state of the mother to leave the child and go back toilet and even prepare meals. Even if the child is proficient in swimming, no parents would leave a young child unattended even for a minute. RIP to the kid. 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Atonchia Supersonic May 9, 2021 Share May 9, 2021 (edited) I dunno what kind of environment the parents were brought up from... seem really lax in safety consciousness. I know people from MY will never leave a 5yr old alone even in MY condo Most of our peers don't dare to think of that.... Yes SG is safe to walk around at night.... Level of safety is higher in condo.... But safety around water body is different. The parents just trying to cope with the lost... thinking they have prep their 5yr old with sufficient survival instinct.... so trying to find other external factors... When my kid was reaching 5yr old, I asked if can go to pool alone... The reply is of course "no.... I duuno how to swim properly...." But I will never leave them alone in pool or go near pool. A 5yr old will know how to reply... But will not truly now how to react Edited May 9, 2021 by Atonchia 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Atonchia Supersonic May 9, 2021 Share May 9, 2021 38 minutes ago, Kopites said: "Faulting others is a way to lessen one pain of losing a loved one." There is a term describing such behaviour. Slip my mind. Couldn't remember now. Denial Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mkl22 Twincharged May 9, 2021 Share May 9, 2021 7 minutes ago, Atonchia said: I dunno what kind of environment the parents were brought up from... seem really lax in safety consciousness. I know people from MY will never leave a 5yr old alone even in MY condo Most of our peers don't dare to think of that.... Yes SG is safe to walk around at night.... Level of safety is higher in condo.... But safety around water body is different. The parents just trying to cope with the lost... thinking they have prep their 5yr old with sufficient survival instinct.... so trying to find other external factors... When my kid was reaching 5yr old, I asked if can go to pool alone... The reply is of course "no.... I duuno how to swim properly...." But I will never leave them alone in pool or go near pool. A 5yr old will know how to reply... But will not truly now how to react I hazard a guess that the family is not local born. Really cannot imagine that our education system would produce such parents. Who not only simply bochap about the kid but play the blame card and accuse someone of manslaughter. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yeshe Turbocharged May 9, 2021 Share May 9, 2021 3 hours ago, Watwheels said: This one confirm the mother is negligent. So boh chap. Still want to blame the passerby and suspect him of pushing their daugther. Wtf. Dunno how the mother is going to survive mother's day today. Let the Lord have mercy on her. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kopites Supersonic May 9, 2021 Share May 9, 2021 (edited) 46 minutes ago, Atonchia said: Denial Goggle. Not sure the correct term. Psychological projection: Psychological projection is a defense mechanism people subconsciously employ in order to cope with difficult feelings or emotions. Psychological projection involves projecting undesirable feelings or emotions onto someone else, rather than admitting to or dealing with the unwanted feelings. Edited May 9, 2021 by Kopites Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Didu Supercharged May 9, 2021 Share May 9, 2021 Very sad thing to happen. I hope the family can get thru this difficult period. 🙏 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Atonchia Supersonic May 9, 2021 Share May 9, 2021 2 hours ago, Kopites said: Goggle. Not sure the correct term. Psychological projection: Psychological projection is a defense mechanism people subconsciously employ in order to cope with difficult feelings or emotions. Psychological projection involves projecting undesirable feelings or emotions onto someone else, rather than admitting to or dealing with the unwanted feelings. I only remember reading before... there are a few stages of stress ...not sure if there are in sequence.. Denial Coping Acceptance Etc.. Maybe what you shared is Behaviourial Science? 2 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Atonchia Supersonic May 10, 2021 Share May 10, 2021 13 hours ago, Mkl22 said: I hazard a guess that the family is not local born. Really cannot imagine that our education system would produce such parents. Who not only simply bochap about the kid but play the blame card and accuse someone of manslaughter. Possibly.... It can be locals as well though smaller Think parents cannot slipped into "comfort zone" thinking its safe for toddlers to roam around pool area without supervision. There was a similar case at a Mecure hotel couple of years ago. Father lapse of attention then 6yr old girl drown in hotel pool. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
BanCoe Hypersonic May 10, 2021 Share May 10, 2021 Maybe she had done this kind of thing before and had worked out just well so she tried again this thing again 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Picnic06-Biante15 Supersonic May 10, 2021 Share May 10, 2021 6 minutes ago, BanCoe said: Maybe she had done this kind of thing before and had worked out just well so she tried again this thing again Agreed with you. Could have done many times until she was so confident to leave her child alone. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ToyotaShuttle 5th Gear May 10, 2021 Share May 10, 2021 Quote The mother indicated that on one of those occasions, she watched her daughter from the gym. Even though the view of the jacuzzi was obstructed from where she was, she trusted that her daughter would be safe because there were other adults in the pool. LJL. ↡ Advertisement Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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