Jusnel 6th Gear June 6, 2020 Share June 6, 2020 Hey all, At this time, I know many people are affected by the global pandemic in one way or another. I would like to extend this to all MCFers, offering coaching sessions for issues that you want to talk about. Some things about my background, I have training in behavioral psychology, a business graduate, and into NLP. In my course of work, I did some counselling and mentoring. I'm quite seriously considering getting certified Coach or NLP, as my next jump. Hence, I want to do something for MCF community and at same time, to prep myself for the new level. Before anyone PM me, I need to make some things very clear. 1. You need to recognise that there is an issue that you want to change in yourself. This is most important for any coachee, that he must be willing to change 2. The session is not a complaint session where you blame the whole world except yourself 3. We will aim to set some measurable goals to achieve by certain timeline 4. Everything will be kept private. I'm not going to come in here and bitch about we had talked. And I expect the same from you 5. We can have regular sessions if you are willing to and find that there are progressions along the way. I will do my best to pace and contribute 6. No gimmicks. I'm not going to make you pay something later. Maybe after CB over, you can buy me $1 coffee and talk somemore. Now because I'm not God, I can't solve everything under the sun. I think I feel most comfortable in talking in these areas in life: 1. Relationships / Dating (also includes "how to have a girlfriend", "how to date a girl" or "how to be a better boyfriend") 2. Stress / Happiness 3. Career 4. Parenting (I'm a parent myself) 5. Communication The session will be done via online: Zoom or Teams or similar. I aim to keep it to 45 mins max per session. Anyone keen, just PM me. Take care! ↡ Advertisement 10 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamesc Hypersonic June 6, 2020 Share June 6, 2020 Since this is a thread about sharing. I am a sex instructor and any good looking young lady need hands on, one on one personal coaching sessions, free of course, just PM me. If PM full just leave a note on this thread also I will get in touch with you as soon as I can. 1 9 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jusnel 6th Gear June 6, 2020 Author Share June 6, 2020 1 minute ago, Jamesc said: Since this is a thread about sharing. I am a sex instructor and any good looking young lady need hands on, one on one personal coaching sessions, free of course, just PM me. If PM full just leave a note on this thread also I will get in touch with you as soon as I can. Thank you for joining in. 😁 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamesc Hypersonic June 6, 2020 Share June 6, 2020 @kobayashiGT Maybe can try no 1. Relationships / Dating (also includes "how to have a girlfriend", "how to date a girl" or "how to be a better boyfriend") @SiLangKia Maybe can try no 5. Communication 2 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamesc Hypersonic June 6, 2020 Share June 6, 2020 2 minutes ago, Jusnel said: Thank you for joining in. 😁 Its only takes a spark to get the fire going. This little girl say one. 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamesc Hypersonic June 6, 2020 Share June 6, 2020 15 minutes ago, Jusnel said: Now because I'm not God, I can't solve everything under the sun. I think I feel most comfortable in talking in these areas in life: 1. Relationships / Dating (also includes "how to have a girlfriend", "how to date a girl" or "how to be a better boyfriend") If you tried and cannot help some people on their Relationships / Dating issues Just ask them to watch this video. You really CANNOT help everybody. 2 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jusnel 6th Gear June 6, 2020 Author Share June 6, 2020 Just now, Jamesc said: If you tried and cannot help some people on their Relationships / Dating issues Just ask them to watch this video. You really CANNOT help everybody. yeah, I know i can't help everyone. LOL Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamesc Hypersonic June 6, 2020 Share June 6, 2020 6 minutes ago, Jusnel said: yeah, I know i can't help everyone. LOL Well some people are so stupid they are beyond help. And they will never understand this. All you will get is arguments and its never them that don't understand. My advice to you is don't even start with them. Just tell them they are wasting your time. 22 minutes ago, Jamesc said: People not only have an infinite level of greed. They also have an infinite level of stupidity. Unfortunately most stupid people don't know they are stupid and I will never tell them. No point really they will just keep arguing and will never be smart enough to just agree. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamesc Hypersonic June 6, 2020 Share June 6, 2020 (edited) There are some very smart people in this forum and there are some that are really dumb. If people wanted to know which camp are they in then its very simple really. Some people loves my posts and I have 200 thousand points it was all their contribution. Some people think jamesc is an idiot all he posts are nonsense. I don't think I need to say explicitly which camp the really dumb people are in. Edited June 6, 2020 by Jamesc 2 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamesc Hypersonic June 6, 2020 Share June 6, 2020 (edited) People don't know the power of NLP. Let NLP open your mind so that before you see fat and ugly now you will see how slim and beautiful life can be. Who don't want this? Grab this opportunity with both hands. Edited June 6, 2020 by Jamesc Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamesc Hypersonic June 7, 2020 Share June 7, 2020 (edited) This is a very inspirational thread. If you have been a failure all your life failed in every thing you do, don't give up hope. You can always be a coach and tell people what to do. I am just kidding, you can be a coach but cannot tell people what to do. The first rule of coaching is you cannot tell people what to do. Because 1) you don't know what to do and 2) you don't know how to do it. If you knew you would have done it. Then you wouldn't have been a failure and failed in everything. I am always suspicious when people that don't know how to do want to tell you. My sex education teacher in school was a very pretty young lady. After she finished teaching us about sex she asked any questions and I asked Is your teaching based on text book theoretical knowledge or are you teaching us from real life experience and she said I was very rude. If I wanted to learn about sex I would want to learn from someone that have at least some experience. If you went for brain surgery and you asked the doctor have you done it before and he said no but I have a read a book on it How would you feel? Not very confident I imagine but that's just me. Some people may feel differently and argue if the doctor has read a book on it then its good enough for them. Its not as if he has no knowledge of it. I would never argue with these people, I would go say go for the brain surgery, I don't see how it can make things any worse for you. You have nothing to lose really. I would never argue with stupid people. Honestly its just a waste of time. Edited June 7, 2020 by Jamesc 2 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Picnic06-Biante15 Supersonic June 7, 2020 Share June 7, 2020 10 hours ago, Jamesc said: Since this is a thread about sharing. I am a sex instructor and any good looking young lady need hands on, one on one personal coaching sessions, free of course, just PM me. If PM full just leave a note on this thread also I will get in touch with you as soon as I can. You, of all person .... 😈 You trying to steal @Tianmo 'rice bowl' .... 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamesc Hypersonic June 7, 2020 Share June 7, 2020 (edited) In the spirit of sharing I wonder if the in house lawyer "in-house" lawyer what a funny name I guess its better than "out-house" lawyer. Can you imagine someone telling you I am an "out-house" lawyer - Really? No sheet! I wonder if he will come here and share his experience on taking legal action against these crooked used car dealers. I read clocking milage is "rampant". Maybe he can share what not to do to win the case? Edited June 7, 2020 by Jamesc Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamesc Hypersonic June 7, 2020 Share June 7, 2020 15 minutes ago, Picnic06-Biante15 said: You, of all person .... 😈 You trying to steal @Tianmo 'rice bowl' .... More the merrier, we don't have enough sex instructors in Singapore. All the surveys say Singapore have one of the lowest sex rates in the world. Study: Married Women In Singapore Have Less Sex Than They Like ... https://www.cleo.com.sg/adulting/love-sex/married-women-singapore-less-sex-want/ Of course married women have less sex than they like. The good looking single ones have no problem with this. 2 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
kobayashiGT Internal Moderator June 7, 2020 Share June 7, 2020 11 hours ago, Jamesc said: @kobayashiGT Maybe can try no 1. Relationships / Dating (also includes "how to have a girlfriend", "how to date a girl" or "how to be a better boyfriend") @SiLangKia Maybe can try no 5. Communication since when i need coaching? hahahah. I am beyond hopeless one. hahaha I think when I am ready, I will look for junsel. hahha. This kind of thing the coach and the student both must have the same goal then can align one. I wait until my parents throw me out of the house. then i see how. hahahha. 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamesc Hypersonic June 7, 2020 Share June 7, 2020 6 minutes ago, kobayashiGT said: since when i need coaching? hahahah. I am beyond hopeless one. hahaha I think when I am ready, I will look for junsel. hahha. This kind of thing the coach and the student both must have the same goal then can align one. I wait until my parents throw me out of the house. then i see how. hahahha. Yah lah no need to rush lah. Young free and single is the best. The problem is people in Singapore have no curiosity and imagination. They have no creativity and that's why they just repeat what they hear. Take Chinese new year and the relatives come over. They have nothing interesting to say so they just repeat what they hear. If you are a single young man or lady - they will say "got boyfriend or girlfriend or not?" If you have a boyfriend or girlfriend - they will say "when going to apply HDB?" If you just got married - they will say "when going to have a baby?" If you just got a first baby- they will say "when going to have a little brother or sister for baby to play with?" If I came to your house I would say - young free and single is the best. No need to settle down until condom burst. Now that's something you don't hear everyday. Creativity and imagination. 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
kobayashiGT Internal Moderator June 7, 2020 Share June 7, 2020 31 minutes ago, Jamesc said: Yah lah no need to rush lah. Young free and single is the best. The problem is people in Singapore have no curiosity and imagination. They have no creativity and that's why they just repeat what they hear. Take Chinese new year and the relatives come over. They have nothing interesting to say so they just repeat what they hear. If you are a single young man or lady - they will say "got boyfriend or girlfriend or not?" If you have a boyfriend or girlfriend - they will say "when going to apply HDB?" If you just got married - they will say "when going to have a baby?" If you just got a first baby- they will say "when going to have a little brother or sister for baby to play with?" If I came to your house I would say - young free and single is the best. No need to settle down until condom burst. Now that's something you don't hear everyday. Creativity and imagination. Hahaha. I more thick skin. I just let it be only. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamesc Hypersonic June 7, 2020 Share June 7, 2020 20 minutes ago, kobayashiGT said: Hahaha. I more thick skin. I just let it be only. One of my frens told me All her single frens very happy to be stuck at home because of CB. All her married frens cannot wait for CB to end. That tells us something about being married. People are selfish and good things like say - money they never share. Its only bad things people want to share. That's why only married people say - join us join us. ↡ Advertisement 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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