Sandwiched generation? It's happening elsewhere too.

[Windwaver]

https://asia.nikkei.com/Spotlight/Caixin/The-double-squeeze-on-China-s-sandwich-generation

The double squeeze on China's 'sandwich generation'

'Little emperors' grow up to be overburdened caregivers to parents and children

Yin Fan is a single mom in her late 30s. When she was pregnant with her daughter, her father living in another city was diagnosed with the nervous system disorder multiple system atrophy and quickly lost his ability to walk. As the family's only child, she had to take care of her baby and her father alone.

Yin belongs to China's first generation under the old one-child policy, those born between 1976 and 1985, also known as the "sandwich generation." Now they are trapped with the obligations of caring for their children and aging parents, putting them in financial and emotional binds.

China has more than 170 million such sandwich generation families, according to Feng Xiaotian, a demographic sociology professor at Nanjing University. Growing up in the 1980s, they were often called "little emperors" as they got all the attention at home. But now they have become the most burdened generation, said Mu Guangzong, a professor at the Institute of Population Research of Peking University.

In the past three decades as this generation grew up to have their own families, China has experienced a profound shift into an aging society with fewer children. From 1990 to 2021, Chinese people's average life expectancy increased from 68.6 years to 78.2. The proportion of people over 65 more than doubled to 13.5% from 5.3%. China's birthrate dropped below 1% in 2020, and the country is expected to enter a period of negative population growth by 2025.

With parents living longer and with couples having their own children at an older age, the challenges facing sandwich generation families affect not only their own lives but also have ramifications for the rest of society.

A family of three generations in Tianjin on July 6, 2016. Because of high housing costs, many Chinese urbanites cannot afford to bring their aging parents to the city they now call home.

Expensive child care

China implemented the one-child policy in 1980 to put a brake on population growth and facilitate economic expansion in a planned economy that faced severe shortages of capital, natural resources and consumer goods. The authorities eased the limit in 2016 to allow each family to have two children. Last year, after a new census showed the birthrate had stalled, China raised the cap to three children.

Money, time and energy deficits are the most common worries sandwich generation families face. Childbirth, especially of a second child, is often the starting point of such crises.

"This is the most stressful time for me," said Liu Li, a 37-year-old employee of a state-owned enterprise. With his wife working at a bank, they take home 20,000 yuan to 30,000 yuan ($2,900 to $4,300) each month, a decent middle-class income in a small town. But since the birth of their second child, they live paycheck to paycheck.

In today's China, more and more families with stable jobs and reasonable savings are trapped in financial problems, time crunches or health difficulties due to the burden of raising children, said Zang Qisheng, a professor at Soochow University.

The average cost of rearing a child until the age of 18 was 485,000 yuan in China in 2019, which was 6.9 times China's per capita GDP, much higher than in many developed countries including the U.S., France, Germany and Japan, according to a report by the YuWa Population Research Institute. The think tank was established by a group of demographers and economists, including economics professor Liang Jianzhang at Peking University.

Child-rearing costs are even higher in large cities, reaching more than 1 million yuan in Shanghai and 969,000 yuan in Beijing.

The pressure of raising children is mainly an economic matter, while caring for the elderly is more of a time and energy issue, said Wang Guangzhou, a researcher at the Institute of Population and Labor Economics at the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences. In the next decade, as the parents of the first generation of single-child families enter their 70s and 80s, the elder-care pressure will grow more prominent, he said.

People walk by a big housing ad in Nanjing, Jiangsu province, on May 8, 2014. 

With the trend of late marriage and late childbearing, the double pressure of caring for the elderly while raising young children is more likely to come at the same time. According to the 2019 China General Social Survey, 27% of urban families in China include members who are 60 or older as well as children who are 14 or younger, meaning that one in four families faces this double pressure.

Children first

As it cares for young children and elderly parents, how will the sandwich generation allocate the family's money, time and human resources?

"Children first" was the conclusion in a study based on a telephone survey of 2,439 urban families in the provinces of Guangdong, Jiangsu and Shaanxi by Sun Yat-sen University and Guangzhou University.

The sandwich generation usually shows a strong sense of responsibility and urgency for its children, said Zhong Xiaohui, a professor at Sun Yat-sen University. However, in terms of elder care, most families lack clear planning and often have to respond on the fly when a parent falls seriously ill. There is a sharp contrast between their rich knowledge of childhood development and their relative ignorance of the elderly, the survey found.

Children become the center of families, and parenting styles tend to be intensive or even excessive, said Yang Juhua, a professor of ethnology and sociology at Minzu University of China. As family resources are limited, it is often the elderly who make concessions, Yang said.

Not only parents but also grandparents often actively shift resources to the children. To cope with the high costs of child care, the sandwich generation normally needs help from parents.

Yang Mo, 61, came to Beijing from her hometown in Anhui province after retirement to help her daughter take care of her newborn. She spends 12 hours a day from 7 a.m. to 7 p.m. feeding, bathing and playing with the baby as well as cooking and cleaning before handing the child off to her daughter after work, Yang told Caixin.

"I dare not get sick," she said. "Who would take care of the baby?"

There were about 42 million infants under the age of 3 in China in 2021, and the nursery enrollment rate was only about 5.5%, according to the National Health Commission. The big gap means most families with infants have to rely on grandparents for child care.

Child care costs account for nearly 50% of the average Chinese family's income, and 80% of children under the age of 3 are cared for by grandparents, said Yang Wenzhuang, director of the commission's Department of Population Surveillance and Family Development.

As China encourages people to have more children to counter the lowest birthrate since the 1950s, this child care model of relying on grandparents might no longer work. Several studies have found that grandparents are less involved in the care of their second grandchild than the first.

More and more elderly people have their own plans for retirement and are not willing to devote themselves to caring for grandchildren, said Yang at Minzu University of China. Even if they want to, aging makes them unable to, the professor said.

Without grandparents' help, the burden on the sandwich generation increases, which in turn makes these families unwilling to have more children. In a 2016 survey, 60.7% of mothers who already had one child said they didn't plan to have a second because of a lack of child care.

From caregivers to care receivers

The more serious challenge is what happens when grandparents are not only unable to help but transition from caregivers to needing care. For the sandwich generation, the worst scenario is that their parents suddenly become severely ill or disabled, physically or mentally.

"It's not only expensive but also very stressful on your mind," said Wang at the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences. "It's not like raising a child, with hope growing every day. Once an elderly person can't take care of oneself in daily life, the hope is fading every day."

According to an estimate by the World Bank, China is expected to have 93 million people over the age of 75 by 2030, accounting for 6.6% of the population. By then, there will be more than 77 million disabled elderly in China, who will experience 7.44 years of disability on average, estimated Zheng Xiaoying, director of the Institute of Population Studies at Peking University.

A nursing home in Jincheng, Shanxi province, on Aug. 17, 2022.

Empty nesters

Can a single child afford the costs of caring for two elderly parents?

According to the 2020 census, 70% of the urban elderly population's income is from pensions and 17.3% from family support. Parents of the first generation of one-child families living in cities thus generally come close to supporting themselves financially, and their children's burden is not obvious, said Wu Haixia, a researcher at the Institute of Population Studies of the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences.

But elderly people living in rural areas are not so lucky. In 2019, the annual pension and other income of the rural elderly was about 3,500 yuan. Most rural elderly people have to rely on family support and continue to work to get by. With the reduction of family size, the proportion of family support the elderly can rely on has been decreasing, said Nie Riming, a researcher at think tank Shanghai Institute of Finance and Law.

All the data show that the rural regions are the "disaster areas" in China's aging population challenge. Nearly half the nation's over-65 population live in rural areas, according to the latest census.

The trickier question is who will take care of the rural elderly.

A 2014 survey by researchers at Renmin University of China found that nearly half of rural elderly were empty nesters, and 12.54% of them needed various degrees of care.

The main reason for the high proportion of empty nesters in rural areas is that a large number of young and middle-aged people leave their hometowns to work in cities.

When these living-alone elderly become seriously ill, half of them do not seek medical treatment because of mobility problems, being unaccompanied or because they live too far from hospitals -- in addition to financial reasons -- according to a survey by Wu at the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences.

Empty nesters in cities face similar difficulties. According to Feng Xiaotian at Nanjing University, the proportion of empty nesters among the parents of first-generation only children in cities was about 60%, based on a 2015 national survey of 12 cities and a 2016 survey of five towns in Hubei Province,

If a married couple's parents live in two different cities, that makes it even harder to care for all four parents at the same time, said Nie at Shanghai Institute of Finance and Law. Such cases are particularly common in megacities such as Beijing and Shanghai, where high housing cost is the first problem when children want to bring their parents to live with them, Nie said.

Even for those who are able to live with their elderly parents, inadequate care is a common problem. The primary caregivers for 60% of the disabled elderly in urban areas in China are their children, but more than half of them receive care for less than 36 hours a week, according to a 2019 survey by Li Yunhua and Liu Yanan at Wuhan University's School of Politics and Public Administration.

Meanwhile, it is difficult for families to find affordable professional care for disabled elderly, Zhong at Sun Yat-sen University and Peng Minggang at Guangzhou University said in a report. China provides few public elderly care services for the average family and few support measures such as subsidies and tax rebates to help families purchase market-oriented care services, they said.

"Honestly speaking, it is almost a problem without a solution for the generation of only children to care for their elderly parents," a sociology scholar told Caixin. "This is the sorrow of our generation, and our parents."

An elderly paralyzed person in bed at a nursing home in Shaoguan, Guangzhou province, talks to a caregiver in March 2022.

Turning old themselves

As the public discussion focuses on child and elder care, the needs and risks of those in the sandwich generation themselves are often overlooked.

To care for their parents, many people have to quit their jobs or choose a lower-paying job with more flexibility. As a result, they suffer a sharp drop in income and the loneliness of social disconnection, Huang Chenxi, deputy dean of the School of Social Development of East China Normal University, found in interviews with caregivers for disabled and mentally ill elders in Shanghai.

Elder care reduces rural women's access to nonfarm jobs by 13.5%, a negative effect that will continue to expand as the intensity of elder care increases, Fan Hongli and Xin Baoying at Shandong University of Finance and Economics found in a study.

By the time their parents are in their 80s and 90s, the sandwich generation will be in their 50s and 60s. "When they bury their parents, who can they rely on?" asked Jin Jun, a sociology professor at Tsinghua University.

In 2020, China's social insurance fund, which includes the basic state pension funds run by provincial-level governments, reported the first annual deficit on record. The deficit is expected to grow to 11.28 trillion yuan by 2050, when the peak of the retirement of the sandwich generation hits.

Scholars have long suggested measures by the government to ease the burden on the sandwich generation.

Ma Chunhua, a professor at the Institute of Sociology of the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences, called for the government to play a more active role in providing child care. "Children should be taken care of jointly by the whole society so they can grow up to take care of the whole society in the future, so as to maintain the overall operation of the economy and the continuity of the social security system," she said at a forum on the aging society.

Supportive policies can't be achieved overnight, said Chen Jia, a professor at the School of Sociology of Shanghai University. For example, it took decades for Japanese families to accept a long-term care insurance system and fully reap the benefits of the system, Chen said.

At the request of the interviewees, the names of Yin Fan and Yang Mo are pseudonyms.

[Windwaver]

1,000,000.00 Chinese Yuan Renminbi = 200,842.26 Singapore Dollars

[Arogab]

All places will have this kind of scenario, just more or less, in a troubled growing too fast country like China, many fight to catch up, what to do?

[Watwheels]

Who's to blame? 

Boomers? Or high cost of living?

[inlinesix]

LOL

Nihonji stir shit

🤭

[inlinesix]

Just now, Watwheels said:

Who's to blame? 

Boomers? Or high cost of living?

Govt🤭

[Jman888]

1 hour ago, Arogab said:

All places will have this kind of scenario, just more or less, in a troubled growing too fast country like China, many fight to catch up, what to do?

not for most of the ang mo culture, the children left house at young age and never need to take care of their parents, social welfare will take care of them 

 

[bsswan]

21 minutes ago, Jman888 said:

not for most of the ang mo culture, the children left house at young age and never need to take care of their parents, social welfare will take care of them 

 

That was a long time ago....... now also buying a first house is almost impossible.

[Jman888]

1 minute ago, bsswan said:

That was a long time ago....... now also buying a first house is almost impossible.

true but the idea of being independent has always be their culture, many of them dun even own a house even in the past, mostly rent.

[Ender]

With low fertility rate, Singapore will see less sandwich group. I guess my gen will be the last few sandwich gen. 

[Arogab]

30 minutes ago, Jman888 said:

not for most of the ang mo culture, the children left house at young age and never need to take care of their parents, social welfare will take care of them 

 

Not 100% true lah, I have known many AM they also have to care for their parents. Especially those not so well to do ones. Just that their laws are different from us. 

We even got laws that our parents can sue us if we did not take care of them. This is really unfair when my cousin comes to me and tell me her father took her to court. I have to tell her, each time you give money, use cheque or have transfer record. Cos I know my this uncle used to be a playboy and my auntie passed away when my cousin was 12. Then she was even chased out by step mother at the age of 18. Really not fair. 

My family do not have this, me and my brother handles all.

[Jman888]

13 minutes ago, Arogab said:

We even got laws that our parents can sue us if we did not take care of them. This is really unfair when my cousin comes to me and tell me her father took her to court. I have to tell her, each time you give money, use cheque or have transfer record. Cos I know my this uncle used to be a playboy and my auntie passed away when my cousin was 12. Then she was even chased out by step mother at the age of 18. Really not fair. 

My family do not have this, me and my brother handles all.

she can fight in court or disown the father right? no obligation if the father never contribute to the family or raising her.

[yishunite]

2 hours ago, Arogab said:

All places will have this kind of scenario, just more or less, in a troubled growing too fast country like China, many fight to catch up, what to do?

But 1 kid 2 ageing parents is almost nationwide problem for China... not so common in many other countries

17 minutes ago, Ender said:

With low fertility rate, Singapore will see less sandwich group. I guess my gen will be the last few sandwich gen. 

I find most of my friends once made decision to have kids all have 2-3. Very few stop at one unless forced by complications etc. Sg problem is vast number of unmarried or childless who have no one to look after them. End up we need a system of elderly care for this type of group and cannot assume family support of elderly can work ... it will leave this giant group of childless to hang

[Arogab]

2 minutes ago, Jman888 said:

she can fight in court or disown the father right? no obligation if the father never contribute to the family or raising her.

Cos she used to give the father cash. That is the problem

[DOBIEMKZ]

Soon parents in China (especially those in cities and urbanite areas) will develop the Kia-su mentality like parents in Singapore. Many things they want the best for their children and many time they comparing their children with their peers.... ://

[inlinesix]

Just now, DOBIEMKZ said:

Soon parents in China (especially those in cities and urbanite areas) will develop the Kia-su mentality like parents in Singapore. Many things they want the best for their children and many time they comparing their children with their peers.... ://

Already started long ago.  More kiasu than Singapore parents hor

[Ender]

1 minute ago, inlinesix said:

Already started long ago.  More kiasu than Singapore parents hor

Their little emperors is famous lor.

In Singapore, there this American International School opposite Bidadari. 10 years ago, majority are ang mo students. Now whenever I pass by when school ends, majority are PRC students. Can hear their accent from those who grandparents who fetch them. Even the older kids in group speak mandarin among themselves rather than english.

[DOBIEMKZ]

8 minutes ago, inlinesix said:

Already started long ago.  More kiasu than Singapore parents hor

Yea right. 🙂 All parents want things be good for their children everywhere, just a matter of magnitude or extent in some nations/countries....