Kezg1 5th Gear February 15, 2011 Share February 15, 2011 I was wondering..men are suppose to be the stronger than woman...physically Man seeks divorce after alleged sexual abuse by wife SINGAPORE - A man has filed for divorce from his wife after alleging that she abused him sexually and psychologically. The 47-year-old bus driver named "Ah Quan" wrote in his divorce application that he had enough of his wife's psychological bullying, He said that his pride had been destroyed by her. Ah Quan and his wife has been married for 20 years with two sons. They first met when he was a bus driver and she was a hairdresser. Chinese newspaper Shin Min Daily reported that the first cracks in their marriage appeared when he realised that she was having affairs with other men. However, she did not change her ways and instead tried to control him. She forced him to do the housework and requested for thousands of dollars for monthly utilities. Ah Quan also said that she took it out on him sexually. The wife would also ridicule him in public, calling him "useless man" and "impotent" in front of everybody. Ah Quan said that he was disappointed that she refused to stop tormenting him even after she lost interest in him. She also destroyed his reputation, he said. Ah Quan left the house six months ago. He has also hired a lawyer to help him with his divorce application. Had own company Ah Quan once ran his own transportation company. He had 2 private buses. However, his wife kept spreading rumours about him until those in the industry lost their trust in him. She sent improper SMSes to his friends and colleagues and also made prank calls. His business failed in the end. He then ended up working for a female boss as a bus driver. However, his wife did not let up and started spreading rumours about him and his boss. She even showed his colleagues the boss's picture and told them that they were having an affair. Asked for at least $5,000 each time Ah Quan said that he has given his wife at least $200,000 so far. He said that she would put the money in her own account or invest it. She would insult him whenever he asked for the money and never returned it to him. She would request for a "bonus" whenever the year ended. He was also expected to give her presents for her birthday and wedding anniversaries. She would ask for $5,000 to $10,000 each time. The couple would quarrel everytime they spoke and could only communicate using SMS. His relationship with his two sons also took a turn for the worse after they were influenced by their mother. Share6 ↡ Advertisement Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whathefish 5th Gear February 15, 2011 Share February 15, 2011 Sibei suay...it is like all the power of a bad wife combine into one... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gearoil 1st Gear February 15, 2011 Share February 15, 2011 An appropriate thread for Valentine Day! But if anyone of these lovey dovey couple reads this right now....they can't imagine that somehow they will be THAT couple 20 years from now! How the passage of time will reveal! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Karu 6th Gear February 15, 2011 Share February 15, 2011 Siao cha bo!!! Wonder how she looks like... Can have affair with other men & treat her husband this way... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Porker Turbocharged February 15, 2011 Share February 15, 2011 I know of such women who abuse their "boyfriends" financially and mentally. Really low-lives. No different from men who lives off women and abuse them. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
SimonTan 2nd Gear February 15, 2011 Share February 15, 2011 Just like those Taiwan storyline. Xie Min Min. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mockngbrd Supersonic February 15, 2011 Share February 15, 2011 i was thinking he kenna tied up n rape by wife or something Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Good-Carbuyer 1st Gear February 15, 2011 Share February 15, 2011 Someone told me his wife framed him until he got jailed. Finally he had to divoiced her to save himself. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whathefish 5th Gear February 15, 2011 Share February 15, 2011 Poor kids... u think they will trust women again? Look at their mum Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tigerwoods Turbocharged February 15, 2011 Share February 15, 2011 He is NOT A MAN...what a WIMP Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Requiemdk 1st Gear February 15, 2011 Share February 15, 2011 Hard to say... The report does say "first cracks in their marriage", so the wife may not always have been like that. Classic bait and switch perhaps? It takes a lot to walk away from a marriage, and I'd like to believe there're still people who believe in not giving up so easily although such beliefs may at times be misguided. This is especially so in SG where you know the laws are almost always stacked against the men in a divorce. Even in this case, it's not out of the question to see the woman's lawyer argue for a huge alimony based on the fact that the woman's lifestyle has been sustained by the huge allowances that he gave to her while married. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Renegade777 5th Gear February 15, 2011 Share February 15, 2011 One sided story and do not think it is so simple. Once relationship turns sour, people can throw all the blames at each other whether they are true or false. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mage Clutched February 15, 2011 Share February 15, 2011 where's the sexual abuse part.. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ahseng 5th Gear February 15, 2011 Share February 15, 2011 Think the man is a trueblue weakling. Who the hell puts up with this kind of abuse and loss of 200,000 dollars when his occupation is supposed to b a bus driver. Give the husband wear green hat and still HE GIVES HER MONEY and gives in to her demands. either is tio gong tao or seebeh gong. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maroon5 5th Gear February 15, 2011 Share February 15, 2011 act this guy really gong Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Csnewbie 1st Gear February 15, 2011 Share February 15, 2011 All the while was he still having sex with her? Cos when in alimony suite lawyers will ask him. And did he enjoy if yes. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tigerwoods Turbocharged February 15, 2011 Share February 15, 2011 One sided story and do not think it is so simple. Once relationship turns sour, people can throw all the blames at each other whether they are true or false. Yeah I think most women will not roll over the floor of dicks for nothing. Most do it to "get even" with husbands who are promiscuous. There are a few women I knew are like that but I flee from them far far away one... don't want to be chopped into 5 pieces... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jman888 Moderator February 15, 2011 Share February 15, 2011 where's the sexual abuse part.. French penis-leash couple arrested at shops Thu, Feb 10, 2011 AFP CARCASSONNE, France - French police said Thursday they arrested a 63-year-old woman who was leading her 40-year-old companion along a busy shopping street by a leash attached to his exposed penis. The couple were detained Wednesday afternoon in the southwestern city of Carcassonne and were due to appear in court in April on charges of public indecency. The couple admitted to being sex addicts and said they were in the middle of a game when arrested, police said. ↡ Advertisement Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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