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Families Defaulting On Nursing Home Payments On The Rise


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Quite sad to learn of this.

 

Cases of the elderly being basically abandoned by their kids at these nursing homes are reported to be on the rise.

 

The report also mentioned that these aged parents being forsakened by their children did not want want go to the Small Claims Tribunal or resort to the Tribunal for the Maintenance of Parents because they were ashamed to be left there in the first place and did not want to further embarrass themselves to seek outside help.

 

Granted some families genuinely faced financial difficulties or have strained relationships with their elderly but to dump them at the elderly homes is really not the right thing to do.

 

One particular case was brought up which a local Singaporean even abandoning his mum at a JB nursing home and refused to pay up or pick up phone calls from the nursing home (Check out the embedded video from 1min 38s onwards).

 

In the Chinese news, he was interviewed and claimed his two sisters would pay up and that he did not give two hoots what others thought of him as long as he live a happy life.

 

From CNA:

 

http://www.channelnewsasia.com/stories/sin...1208889/1/.html

 

Cases of families defaulting on nursing home payments on the rise

By Vimita Mohandas/Lip Kwok Wai/Wee Leng | Posted: 20 June 2012 2123 hrs

 

SINGAPORE: Some eldercare facilities in Singapore are seeing more cases of families defaulting on their payment and also facing the challenge of trying to contact family members.

 

About half of the 110 patients at Lee Ah Mooi Old Age Home have defaulted on their payments, which ranges from about one to two months.

 

To help these financially strapped families, the home works out instalment plans and even offers subsidies, but more often than not its hands are tied as families are just not able to fork out the expenses. Some remain uncontactable, simply abandoning their loved ones.

 

The home said it has tried to seek help from the Small Claims Tribunal and the Tribunal for the Maintenance of Parents, but it is not as easy as it seems.

 

Manager of the Lee Ah Mooi Old Age Home Then Kim Yuan said: "We as a caregiver of the patient can help apply for this tribunal (The Maintenance of Parents Act), but we have to be authorised by the patient or by the parents.

 

"Unfortunately, most of the time we don't get the permission because to them, it's a shame to be abandoned in the nursing home. If they were to force their children to pay for the expenses, they will feel even more embarrassed".

 

Mr Then added that the process at the Small Claims Tribunal is also long and tedious and family members usually do not turn up for these sessions. The home also feels that the small fee that they have to fork out for the mediation process is not money well spent.

 

This problem has also spread across the causeway to the Comfort Ville Home nursing care centre in Taman Johor Jaya.

 

Representatives from the home said they have tried to contact Singaporean Joseph Tay, whose mother was admitted in March.

 

The home alleges that Mr Tay owes them 6000 ringgit.

 

Staff-in-charge at Comfort Ville Home Goh Ker Xin said: "When we admit a patient, we will collect a one-month deposit from the patients' families. However, Mr Tay said he couldn't afford it and we still decided to help him. But he hasn't come back to visit his mother and has disappeared."

 

Mr Tay, who is unemployed, said he could not afford the bills and that his siblings would settle the expenses.

 

Responding to queries from Channel NewsAsia, the Ministry of Health said it does not condone the abandonment of patients in residential healthcare institutions, such as nursing homes or hospitals.

 

"We are saddened to see such occurrences," a ministry spokesperson said. "In such situations, institutions will engage the family on an amicable resolution, such as financial assistance through subsidies, Medifund, charity dollars or payment by installations.

 

"The Maintenance of Parents Act can be exercised by elderly patients to pursue his/her child for maintenance, should such an unfortunate situation occur."

 

- CNA/wm

 

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The joke is the number of millionaire household increased greatly last year, and every year in fact.

So how can these family be so poor?

 

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Supersonic

Everyone living in Sg is a millionaire. We are all living in heaven.

 

The above default does not happen here. Go back to dreamland. :D

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Supercharged

It's the same cause as those who are returning the units back to developers. People are getting out of jobs! Economy is not as rosy as what we know.

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You dont need to be poor to find nursing home expensive. - Just need to be middle class.

 

In fact if poor better, gov give more subsidies. But if lower to mid middle class you will suffer.

 

Best thing not many know really which income band they are in because we always hear "singapore is so rich" :D

 

 

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Supercharged

Everyone living in Sg is a millionaire. We are all living in heaven.

 

The above default does not happen here. Go back to dreamland. :D

 

Same as Greeks..... Lol

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Useless children's!!

Sad ah mah!

 

家家有本难念的经。

 

Sometimes things are not so simple as we have assumed.

 

There are cases of parents, usually the father, abandoning the family when the kids are young but later come back KPKB asking for maintenance when the children grow up and start working.

 

As for those bona fide cases of unfilial children dumping their parents unceremoniously to nursing homes and refusing to even pay for the fees, well the full brunt of the law must be brought against them [mad]

 

 

 

 

 

 

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