Alau3978 2nd Gear April 8, 2019 Share April 8, 2019 Stay strong and get well soon. Very happy to hear that your family is helping you during this period. ↡ Advertisement 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ichibawa 5th Gear April 8, 2019 Share April 8, 2019 Get well soon bro... Did I tell you I initially thought you are a girl? I had some experience with the plums too. I developed mild discomfort for 2 weeks which steadily grow into an annoying and painful one. It would be a chore to even walk 500m and it would be so painful that I have to slouch. Upon self-examination, I found the right ball is swollen and reddish. The pain and discomfort did not go away. So I went to the doc, he dropped my pants (usually its the fairer sex that drops em) and started poking my right ball with his finger. Damn!! It was like kena electrocuted with every touch. I did some research of my own before the visit. The doc isn't sure and insist I do all the test as he is afraid that it might be serious but he claim it is rare like what you had said. He gave me some antibiotics and anti-inflammation medications. A week later I went back for the review. The test were negative, to my relieve and the swelling has subsided but I am now more sensitive to issues around that region. I still feel the tingling sensation when writing this. Hope I gave you some best medicine bro. Rest well and keep fighting. 6 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kxbc Turbocharged April 8, 2019 Share April 8, 2019 Ha. Walking my dog is already bonus already. Definitely no energy to exert. Haha my dog also bit confused why I don't force it to run. That's why I ran for several days before starting chemo. But these two weeks are taper before starting next cycle. Will walk more if I feel up to it. Need to keep some busyness in life. Esp from someone who hasn't taken such a long break from Working since. Cooking dinner last night was a good distraction for me. Otherwise, feel like invalid. Stay positive and fight it well. We here at MCF are waiting for more of your posts once your treatment cycle is over. 2 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tohto Hypersonic April 8, 2019 Share April 8, 2019 Take care bro, stay positive and strong. 5 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dleodleo Twincharged April 8, 2019 Share April 8, 2019 加油! Get well soon! Take care! 8 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heartlander Turbocharged April 8, 2019 Share April 8, 2019 Thanks for sharing. Be positive and take this opportunity to binge watch all the drama/movies through Netflix and other china sites, or try to do something that you have put off for the longest time like a new foreign language or musical instrument through online resources that are plentiful since you are basically imprisoned in your house with nothing to do. Time will go faster. And be less strict with your kids, your mental wellbeing and health will improve alot. Take care and speedy recovery. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jusnel 6th Gear April 8, 2019 Share April 8, 2019 Well. This is more of a sharing experience to help understand what's chemo about. Unfortunately, I am the patient in question. Basically I was diagnosed with early stage cancer in mid march. Operated and confirmed diagnosis. Came to National Cancer center for further treatment. The biggest shock is probably for my parents rather than me, given my background. My cancer is early stage and has good long term prognosis. But has a significant chance of relapse if no preventive chemotherapy is done Hence, after discussion with the oncologist here, will be undergoing 2 x 3 weeks cycles of chemo. My kids still young, so not taking preventive chemo is not really an option. I'm pretty prepared for everything, so all the pros and cons of chemo were q straight forward for me. Immune system will be weakened. So avoid crowded places. Wear mask. Eat only cooked food. Watch for fever etc. Basically once u seen the oncologist and if chemo is needed. U will need to prebook the chemo appt at level 3. Ambulatory treatment unit. Everytime u come must register and measure weight. Then u wait for your chair or bed to receive treatment. U come. U wait at your bed/chair. Can be accompanied by one family member. They come set plug and give u medicines. Then the infusion starts. Which lasts about few hours. I usually nap a bit or read on my phone. Was considering Netflix but no real inclination to watch when I was actually here. First week is pretty intense. 5 days in a row. Forearm veins also sian from being poked. There are different agents given on different days and everyone will experience different side effects. Main side effects are nausea, fatigue and feeling sick. It was pretty rough for mid last week. Even walking around the home is tiring. Supposedly with the latest drugs, vomiting is uncommon though nausea here and there is common. Sleep wake cycle is bit screwed up also. I'm easily 20-30 years younger than most pts here, can imagine these older folks need to be even more stoic. Currently I'm on week 2 of the first cycle. Typing this while I'm waiting for the infusion to finish. If u do have have family or friends having chemo, its pretty depressing to undergo. Family and friends are the most important in distracting you and helping out, though my kids are more annoying now since I'm not in the best of moods. The social connection is undoubtedly the most important though. Bro, we pray together for you. Fellow MCFers will come together in times of need. I'm still shocked about this, especially when age is still young. But this always remind me of how unpredictable life can be. Oh, my FIL went through chemo at NCC some time back and i will pick him up sometimes. He was impressed by NCC and sing praises of the nurses and doc. (he was a fussy man). But God called him back though. I saw him through in every stage. I have learned by staying positive in mind and spirit will help in managing cancer and other illness. Don't let any kind of anger, sadness or negative energy gets to you. Always think positive with good family support. Let yr kids understand and hopefully they put their bestest behaviour for you. Tell your wife of the good things that she needs to know from you. 5 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Datsun366 Turbocharged April 8, 2019 Share April 8, 2019 If you need stem cells. Just ask. Or bone marrow. Just ask. Got plenty over here. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Strat 6th Gear April 8, 2019 Share April 8, 2019 Well. This is more of a sharing experience to help understand what's chemo about. Unfortunately, I am the patient in question. Basically I was diagnosed with early stage cancer in mid march. Operated and confirmed diagnosis. Came to National Cancer center for further treatment. The biggest shock is probably for my parents rather than me, given my background. My cancer is early stage and has good long term prognosis. But has a significant chance of relapse if no preventive chemotherapy is done Hence, after discussion with the oncologist here, will be undergoing 2 x 3 weeks cycles of chemo. My kids still young, so not taking preventive chemo is not really an option. I'm pretty prepared for everything, so all the pros and cons of chemo were q straight forward for me. Immune system will be weakened. So avoid crowded places. Wear mask. Eat only cooked food. Watch for fever etc. Basically once u seen the oncologist and if chemo is needed. U will need to prebook the chemo appt at level 3. Ambulatory treatment unit. Everytime u come must register and measure weight. Then u wait for your chair or bed to receive treatment. U come. U wait at your bed/chair. Can be accompanied by one family member. They come set plug and give u medicines. Then the infusion starts. Which lasts about few hours. I usually nap a bit or read on my phone. Was considering Netflix but no real inclination to watch when I was actually here. First week is pretty intense. 5 days in a row. Forearm veins also sian from being poked. There are different agents given on different days and everyone will experience different side effects. Main side effects are nausea, fatigue and feeling sick. It was pretty rough for mid last week. Even walking around the home is tiring. Supposedly with the latest drugs, vomiting is uncommon though nausea here and there is common. Sleep wake cycle is bit screwed up also. I'm easily 20-30 years younger than most pts here, can imagine these older folks need to be even more stoic. Currently I'm on week 2 of the first cycle. Typing this while I'm waiting for the infusion to finish. If u do have have family or friends having chemo, its pretty depressing to undergo. Family and friends are the most important in distracting you and helping out, though my kids are more annoying now since I'm not in the best of moods. The social connection is undoubtedly the most important though. Take care and praying a speedy recovery for you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ct3833 Supersonic April 8, 2019 Share April 8, 2019 @Lala81, being young is your best advantage now. Wishing you all the best and a speedy recovery. 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarNutz 4th Gear April 8, 2019 Share April 8, 2019 Hi bro,though I do not know you on a personal basis but through this MCF,I sincerely wish you a speedy and full recovery. Pretty sure u have a strong support both from your family and loved ones and of course MCF too. Take care!! 4 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kklim Supercharged April 8, 2019 Share April 8, 2019 Have a look at this book: https://www.amazon.com/After-Cancer-Care-Definitive-Self-Care/dp/1623365023 It's available in our public libraries. Contains tips on how to avoid/relief peripheral neuropathy from chemo, chemo brain, dietary and lifestyle changes after treatment, etc. 3 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Uncle2 Hypersonic April 8, 2019 Share April 8, 2019 Get Well Soon Bro! 16 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tedlhw 5th Gear April 8, 2019 Share April 8, 2019 Get well soon! both my parents died from cancer... hearing that anyone has it touches a raw nerve for me. 7 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
PSP415 Supersonic April 8, 2019 Share April 8, 2019 Have a good rest, bro. Hope no major side effects or not much discomfort. And body is responding well to treatment too. If u are a Christian, just claim total healing upon the finished work of Christ on the cross. Its been paid for in full liao 3 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loki Supersonic April 8, 2019 Share April 8, 2019 Take care and I hope you will get better soon. All the best! 5 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carbon82 Moderator April 8, 2019 Share April 8, 2019 @lala81 I'm lost for words... You are the 2nd cancer case I learnt in the past few days. Thanks for sharing your experience with us, it just reminded us how fragile we can be, and hopefully it is not to late for some of us to make contingency planning, me inclusive. I strongly believe family love and having a positive mind is the best cure. Wish you a smooth and speedy recovery. My thought and prayer are with you and your family. 15 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hoseyboh Twincharged April 8, 2019 Share April 8, 2019 Get well soon Doc. ↡ Advertisement 8 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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