Sad case of the Woodlands murder

[Kopites]

 

I have this antidote.

 

stress at work till boiling point tell yourselves...

 

"it was my choice"

 

stress at home with partner till bpiling point...look at her and talk to yourselves

 

"she was my choice"

 

when you about to lose it in front of your kids; mischief/rebellious. look at them and tell yourselves...

 

"they are exactly like me".

 

hope it work.[/quote. car get jammed in traffic and tempers flare oso our choice ð©ð©

yes..in any traffic situation..

 

I always tell myself .."I have a choice"..by the time recite that phrase in one mind it would probably take another 1 second off. This mere 1 second can aid in one to come to senses.

[Lala81]

Gambling is a disease and it just reared it’s ugly side , this is the reason many opposed the casino thing here but the opposite lobby was strong and needed to vitalise the economy

 

I was quite anti-casino when it came. But now as i grow older, i think such people will always find the avenue anyway. Whether gambling on 4d/toto/football or going casino on ships/genting.

 

The $200 charge nowadays is pretty prohibitive anyway.

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yes..in any traffic situation..

 

I always tell myself .."I have a choice"..by the time recite that phrase in one mind it would probably take another 1 second off. This mere 1 second can aid in one to come to senses.

 

haha i better learn better self control.

My kids can trigger me off with a snap.

 

But i need to avoid being tired or sleep deprived first. Cos that's usually my no.1 reason for low threshold.

[Acemundo]

never get angry with your wife, nowadays i hardly get angry with mine even when she nag or scold or accuse or suan me, or she is dead wrong about something, she is always the winner  

 

women have a streak and penchance to nag........once we accept this thinking, we will get use to their nagging....

[Lala81]

women have a streak and penchance to nag........once we accept this thinking, we will get use to their nagging....

 

I'm quite good at nagging myself lol.

My wife concluded it's being a mother. She said she never used to be so naggy. But now she understands why women nag and nag. When it's nothing gets done unless u repeat yourself for the 3rd-4th time, it becomes habit.

[Celicar]

End of the day, no amount of reasoning is justifiable for taking away of another life. The guy definitely deserve the death sentence without a doubt. Just hang him and dun waste court's time and money.

How come this thread laced with so much irony.

[PSP415]

You should read some of the earlier articles which they interviewed the people from the pre school... he supposedly treats his family very nice and attached to his family...

 

I think if those crappy lousy Father who donât care, he will not murder the kid... he will just leave the family, or exhort money from Wife, etc...

They were a loving couple, as mentioned by family members.

 

Sad. Tragic. We only can discuss what's reported. Thanks for sharing.

 

Safe ride

[Watwheels]

I was quite anti-casino when it came. But now as i grow older, i think such people will always find the avenue anyway. Whether gambling on 4d/toto/football or going casino on ships/genting.

 

The $200 charge nowadays is pretty prohibitive anyway.

 

haha i better learn better self control.

My kids can trigger me off with a snap.

 

But i need to avoid being tired or sleep deprived first. Cos that's usually my no.1 reason for low threshold.

 

There are actually cheaper options out there. There are cruise ships who operate casino on neighbouring waters. Every week they will berth at HF. Many aunties and unkers will board the cruise ship. Food and lodging are not a problem obviously. They can even take a ferry to and fro from TM to transit at Batam to reach the ship daily. The cruise ship only open the casino after it leaves sgp waters. No entry fee. Only pay for ferry ticket. Lodging if needed will be charged seperately. I think food is foc.

 

Edited July 5, 2019 by Watwheels

[Kusje]

never get angry with your wife, nowadays i hardly get angry with mine even when she nag or scold or accuse or suan me, or she is dead wrong about something, she is always the winner

Wah. Sounds like you are another pressure cooker waiting to explode

[Lala81]

There are actually cheaper options out there. There are cruise ships who operate casino on neighbouring waters. Every week they will berth at HF. Many aunties and unkers will board the cruise ship. Food and lodging are not a problem obviously. They can even take a ferry to and fro from TM to transit at Batam to reach the ship daily. The cruise ship only open the casino after it leaves sgp waters. No entry fee. Only pay for ferry ticket. Lodging if needed will be charged seperately. I think food is foc.

 

 

I didn't know about the can take ferry to batam part.   

I only thought they go for like 2D1N or 3D2N cruise around in international waters 

[Kopites]

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[Lala81]

I always tell myself. "he is exactly like me".

 

haha the problem is my kids are quite different from me. I'm really quite a good obedient boy when i was young.

And i don't think it's my own personal biased recollection 

Like my girl is really one of a kind in our immediate families. Both my MIL and my mother concur.

 

Ok. noted x 3. Will try your anger management technique.

Edited July 5, 2019 by Lala81

[Ronkovic]

women have a streak and penchance to nag........once we accept this thinking, we will get use to their nagging....

 

I always used to joke about this when I was emcee-ing at friends' / relatives' weddings:

 

For men to enjoy a happy marriage, they must always keep in mind these 2 golden rules: 

 

1. The Wife is Always Right

2. When the Wife is Wrong, Refer back to Rule No. 1. 

 

I guess those who are married will know, when women nag, there is no point to challenge or go head-on with them.

If you can take a step back, be the bigger person and show care and concern; and let them rant, nag and wait for them to cool down, you may get a-head instead....

[Inlinefour]

[Dxyong]

We can't turn back the clock but we should learn to lower our desire and expectation....Sg has been developing too fast in the last couple of years but not everyone is coping....ended up some get stressed and burned out unnecessary....no wonder our happiness index is never higher than Nepal 

[Kusje]

I always used to joke about this when I was emcee-ing at friends' / relatives' weddings:

 

For men to enjoy a happy marriage, they must always keep in mind these 2 golden rules: 

 

1. The Wife is Always Right

2. When the Wife is Wrong, Refer back to Rule No. 1. 

 

I guess those who are married will know, when women nag, there is no point to challenge or go head-on with them.

If you can take a step back, be the bigger person and show care and concern; and let them rant, nag and wait for them to cool down, you may get a-head instead....

 

They give head ah?

[Yeshe]

Feel so sad for him....

I doubt he would ever forgive himself for killing his daughter. That image will haunt him the rest of his life. All that because of $70k debt.... To put things into perspective, our in house rolex collector can easily solve his problems with a few watches.

[Neost]

I doubt he would ever forgive himself for killing his daughter. That image will haunt him the rest of his life. All that because of $70k debt.... To put things into perspective, our in house rolex collector can easily solve his problems with a few watches.

[Acemundo]

I always used to joke about this when I was emcee-ing at friends' / relatives' weddings:

 

For men to enjoy a happy marriage, they must always keep in mind these 2 golden rules: 

 

1. The Wife is Always Right

2. When the Wife is Wrong, Refer back to Rule No. 1. 

 

I guess those who are married will know, when women nag, there is no point to challenge or go head-on with them.

If you can take a step back, be the bigger person and show care and concern; and let them rant, nag and wait for them to cool down, you may get a-head instead....

 

 

haha, yes, agree absolutely......the point is not about who is right.......it is more important that both gets to live every happily afterall.....

 

challenging them is just like asking leopards to change their spot.

I'm quite good at nagging myself lol.

My wife concluded it's being a mother. She said she never used to be so naggy. But now she understands why women nag and nag. When it's nothing gets done unless u repeat yourself for the 3rd-4th time, it becomes habit.

 

agree.....i also find my mother very naggy.....haha......

 

and my wife became more naggy after we have kids.....

 

i like to think although i can be preaching at times, but i am never naggy.....i must verify with my wife one of these days. haha