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Polygamy to solve population shortage issue and citizens subsidized to send elderly folks to JB nursing homes? [laugh] From CNA: http://www.channelnewsasia.com/stories/sin...1210424/1/.html S'pore govt to review marriage and parenthood policies By S Ramesh | Posted: 28 June 2012 1425 hrs

Having a relationship , wedding bells to making babies are the standard route which most of us will choose to take of cos there are some under certain circumstances , stayed single. Parenthood and having babies is never easy . I have witnessed couples of modern days society taking the pleasures of making babies but having no accountability in actions taken. I'm a father of 1 with both my wife and myself working , we jiggle time taking turns to look after our little angel but like any average family of both working parties , my mum volunteered to look after our baby in the daytime alternate days . Strictly no maids but I gotten wife a nanny during first few months after birth to help wife a first timer mum cope. My brother in law whose wife is, my wife's elder sister given birth to a second child a couple of months ago . First child hardly see them taking care , fancy leaving with in law . Reason was they are both working . Yah ... As if they are the only ones ???? Maid came in when first child was a few month old until there were some issues that maid was being rude n she was fired . Now second child arrived and again claimed cannot cope , first and second was brought into in laws care alternate days . Brother in law wife was not working at that moment juz for extra info. We were visiting in laws house with our baby and my wife seeing her mother so tired taking care of the babies volunteered to stayed and help out as it was the beginning of her block leave . Me and baby went home first and my wife was still awake 3am in the morning when I SMS her at my own home. Brother in law n wife was happily on a oversea trip at that period. WTF???? My wife as filial to her family and responsible and so she deserve to be your part time nanny???? Tho it was voluntary but how can anyone bear seeing own mother Soooo tired ???? As tittle is written. Making babies anyone down to a 12 yr old can do it. Taking care and making accountability is another story. Having both working parties isn't a reason NOT to. If you are not ready to sacrfic , dun give birth . Wear a farking condom!!!!! Having babies is just like buying car , no one force u to buy however if bought , gotto support n feed it lo. Simple as that .