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Just found this topic kinda common (in our local dating scene).... Men... a large number of them are insecure when it comes to the dating scene. Just to name a few examples 1) My gf is an Air crew... heard from her that a large percentage of her crew mates have bfs and husbands who would insist that they bring a laptop (with webcam) along with them when they layover in foreign countries. These poor gals are expected to turn on the web cam the moment they check into the hotel and leave it on the entire duration so that their loser bfs and hubbys can "monitor" their movements - I think its dumb... if she wants to sleep around, she can always do so in another man's room, out of sight from this bl**dy webcam... 2) I've a sizable amount of guy friends, who "ban" their gfs from clubbing without them, ban them from talking to their ex(s).... If they wanna club, the poor gal must club with her loser bf around... so that he can "protect" her.... what rubbish !!! 3) Guys who make their partners "report" to them every now and then.... Its so common..... Interestingly, I think the more insecured a man is, the chances of their partners leaving them is higher.... Some gals however, likes this insecured male characteristics... Kinda put them on the pedestal I guess.... Personally, I think insecured guys are disgusting... Its got alot to do with their looks (lack of it), earning capabilities (lask of it) and confidence (lack of it again!!).... The above 3 qualities runs simultaneously.... Its a huge turnoff.... What do you guys think???