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My daddy, my hero and idol...Yours?


Thargor
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Do you look up to your daddy?  

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  1. 1. Is your daddy a role model/hero/idol for you?

    • Absolutely yes! Always been and always will be.
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    • Ermm not sure, sometimes yes...sometimes errmm...
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    • Absolutely Not!
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For me I choose Option 1....just curious about how the rest feel :D

 

I am almost in my mid-30s by the way.

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If he is my hero and idol, then I'll get NOWHERE in life. Absolutely not X 10^1 million for me.

 

Wow...that bad?

 

My Dad definitely...he has gone thru all the status: Single, Married, Widower, Divorcee and now back to Single....he went thru alot

 

 

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Live well and be a good role model not only for your kids but also those younger people around you.

We cannot be perfect, but we must try........cultivate and pray for the wisdom to differentiate what is right and what is wrong.

 

 

Work hard, [:)] bros in MCF

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my dad arh.... he does has his bad points. but i love him for his good ones more.

 

no one is perfect and yes i yearn to be the hero of my kiddos in the future.

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If he is my hero and idol, then I'll get NOWHERE in life. Absolutely not X 10^1 million for me.

without him or father none of us would be around

it is tough being a father

especially when you have to put food on the table, take care of the family and what about his own needs

we all have faults

we may not be the best son, best brother, best siste, or even the best father BUT most important of all deep inside we really really tried very hard even if it comes out what appears wrong

when decisions are made, it was assess to be the best at the that time but it may be completely wrong and turned to hurt someone unintentionally

afterall we share the same "blood"

we should try to forgive easier

I am not standing on high moral grounds but just to let you know you are not alone buddy

we are in the same boat

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For me I choose Option 1....just curious about how the rest feel :D

 

I am almost in my mid-30s by the way.

hmmmmmm.................. almost 40's and still needs your daddy protection........ [sly]:ph34r:[:p][:p]

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without him or father none of us would be around

it is tough being a father

especially when you have to put food on the table, take care of the family and what about his own needs

we all have faults

we may not be the best son, best brother, best siste, or even the best father BUT most important of all deep inside we really really tried very hard even if it comes out what appears wrong

when decisions are made, it was assess to be the best at the that time but it may be completely wrong and turned to hurt someone unintentionally

afterall we share the same "blood"

we should try to forgive easier

I am not standing on high moral grounds but just to let you know you are not alone buddy

we are in the same boat

 

Agree with what you said, we should forgive easier, after all we have the same blood. However, this sentence is really easier said than done. Last time he used to be good to the family, but times have changed. Now he only does things that pleases himeslf and only himself, not sparing any thoughts for all around him, including his own parents. From his actions, we can see that he don't mind hurting anyone else expect himself. That's my dad. Forgiveness, easier said than done, really. Have been trying all these while but have not succeed.

 

However, if you are talking about my mum then it's a totally different story. Nice lady, made lots of sacrifices for the family, unconditioned love. That's my mum.

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won't say my dad is perfect, but i totally love him! [laugh] he provides and takes good care of the family..

look at this incredible father and his disabled child.

i had tears in my eyes after watching it.. really touching! [bigcry]

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Agree with what you said, we should forgive easier, after all we have the same blood. However, this sentence is really easier said than done. Last time he used to be good to the family, but times have changed. Now he only does things that pleases himeslf and only himself, not sparing any thoughts for all around him, including his own parents. From his actions, we can see that he don't mind hurting anyone else expect himself. That's my dad. Forgiveness, easier said than done, really. Have been trying all these while but have not succeed.

 

However, if you are talking about my mum then it's a totally different story. Nice lady, made lots of sacrifices for the family, unconditioned love. That's my mum.

 

 

human are selfish by nature

and nobody's perfect.

forgive those who had done you wrong.

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For me I choose Option 1....just curious about how the rest feel :D

 

I am almost in my mid-30s by the way.

 

Yes, my Dad was and still is my hero, having passed on when I was just 8yrs old.

I have his photo, grandfather and great grandfather's photo hanging in my hall.

 

Mother different, if i could shoot her with a shotgun, I would.

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my dad arh.... he does has his bad points. but i love him for his good ones more.

 

no one is perfect and yes i yearn to be the hero of my kiddos in the future.

 

 

Those not born yet I supposed, not those in the mouth, hand or washed down the drain.. [laugh] [laugh]

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I apologise if I seem a be a bit long winded

when we were a child imagine what our parents have to go through

when we were thought what is right and wrong and yet on many occasions we still choose to take the wrong

sometimes now as parents it can hurt very much and can be very trying especially if the child dont listen

i am not giving excuses for dad's behaviour but sometimes there must be something that we have missed that may be the triggering factor

be patient

remember even if he does not admit it infront of you

to him, you are his precious son

many have found this too late especially only at the death bed

 

learn from other people mistake

family is one thing in this lifetime worth investing in

money cannot buy

when you are in deep sh i t most of the time, so call friends are no where to be seen and if they are around their help are only words

but family will stick by you even if they give you s h it

so trust me, when i say family is one investment that is more valuable than all the riches you can find in this world

i hope you can at least believe me a bit

good luck

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Ya my dad have brought 4 children up single handedly, my mom only know how to gamble.....so basicaly we are more attached with our dad.

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