Dun be too kind..sigh.

[So_nice]

dun worry. hao ren you hao bao!

 

i'm a single 25 yr old..and i promised to be home by 7..keke.

 

joking ah. no offense eh..

[So_nice]

sorry to hear that. sometimes even husband and wife should haf a clear line between $$. i guess u're just too nice to pple hence in the long run they took advantage of u

[Freestylers09]

people muz always encounter the bad one then know whats the good one...like lend $ dun return is the bad but u learn a lesson which is the good..not until always have the good one,dun noe whats the bad ,later dun noe how handle..

[Sony]

Why you always kena such man one har? so sad

[Milo]

tolong.... im scared of empty promises....

[Milo]

he even promised to marry me after he returned to spore but then he got another gf behind my back....then end up married her...

[Gantan88]

milo.... u should be wiser now.... after reading yr story i really dunno wad to say...

 

never lend big sum of $$ to anyone less yr immediate family members....

[Milo]

if dun lend, ppl will say u not good la, like tat donhelp n so on....hao ren nan zuo.

[Milo]

i also duno... r most guys like that?

[Beei]

I was in a similar situation.... lend a friend some money and he promised to return in 3 month.... in the end, he took 9 months to return, and in instalment some more.

 

After this incident, I never lend $$ to anyone....

at least u still get back ur money..

[Gantan88]

agreed. if i'm left wif only 2 bucks in my pocket i would rather let my woman eat.

 

 

no way am i going to let myself be left with $2 in my pocket.. its doom day for me... haha

[Freestylers09]

just tell them,u cant be better since u ask me..simple..lolz

[So_nice]

no lah. dun lose ur faith in relationships! just tat somethings u must draw a line. cannot mix together.

[Milo]

i know... when u r in a r/s, if u don help, they will say u heartless...miser... blah blah blah....

[Beei]

err..no.. My group of frens, the guys will paid for almost everything.. One of them even paid for his GF's Full time studies..

[So_nice]

if they were to say tat to u, more or less u noe wat kind of character they are..

[Sony]

i also duno... r most guys like that?

 

 

Apparently it's a BIG NO, that's why I ask why you always get those bad ones..

 

Where did you pick these guys up from?

or where do you hang around for them to pick you up?

 

Maybe you shd turn up for MCF gathering and those people there are better. Just avoid the usual "bend down" type and "drive father/mother's car" people and you shd be fine.

 

Oh, skip those with baby seats in the car as well.

[Gantan88]

milo, everbody has their fair share of down period.... what u experienced has got something to do with money... others may be facing other issues....

 

But take heart... good guys are still around....