Raymondism Twincharged August 29, 2011 Share August 29, 2011 the cause of the situation - both parties are at fault but the manner it is resolved, is it fair to say that the guy was being insensitive and a jerk? Money doesn't solve the problem all the time its not fair... cos you are not your gf ↡ Advertisement Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raymondism Twincharged August 29, 2011 Share August 29, 2011 It's ultimately YOUR fault for not warning your friend. And here you are trying to blame the guy as expected from any woman Porker is right... when we see a friend walking towards a building on fire, we should stop him or her..... but Belle didn't :angry: Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raymondism Twincharged August 29, 2011 Share August 29, 2011 By the way - just as an FYI - if you really really must do bare back, at least get a bj to completion first - the second time round you are "less fertile" (the risk still there, but is lesser as there will be lesser tadpoles in the second shot in a given night) simi theory lai eh? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darryn Turbocharged August 29, 2011 Share August 29, 2011 Porker is right... when we see a friend walking towards a building on fire, we should stop him or her..... but Belle didn't :angry: I think that's a bit harsh... Unless of course the GF was sharing all the salacious details with Belle and she said nothing about the risk. But I kinda suspect they weren't talking to people Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raymondism Twincharged August 29, 2011 Share August 29, 2011 Heavens, and now it has became my fault. *frowns* I wish I could have warned her earlier. but who would have expected such an outcome. It is normal for couples to be sexually active and when trouble arises, the guy absolve responsibilities. I'm not blaming guys in general, I said earlier, it is a shared responsibility, but the matter it was handled by the guy, its not acceptable. Should he be blamed for his insensitive manner of handling the situation? If you think what he did was right, its your view, I've no right to diss that. I just hope then, that you do not have sisters or daughters who face the same plight and gets the same treatment from such a guy, with such actions. no.. he is just insensitive... u cannot blame him for being insensitive as it is his nature.... unless he tell your gf that he will bring her there and did not turn up then he is at fault for lying... he has one fault, not protecting the girl and the new life... tats all Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raymondism Twincharged August 29, 2011 Share August 29, 2011 I think that's a bit harsh... Unless of course the GF was sharing all the salacious details with Belle and she said nothing about the risk. But I kinda suspect they weren't talking to people yes its harsh if belle didnt know no if belle knew that they are hvg sex.... we also hv fault... accepting liberal western thinking.... we all allowed this to happen.... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darryn Turbocharged August 29, 2011 Share August 29, 2011 simi theory lai eh? Your tadpoles damn kancheong one - they all want to shoot first. Most go first shoot. Second shoot, then less tadpoles - if less tadpoles rushing the beach, less chance one will make a beach-head Seriously - you go to fertility doc - they will tell you can only "try" every 2nd or third day. Must save up the tadpoles for maximum chance one Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raymondism Twincharged August 29, 2011 Share August 29, 2011 Your tadpoles damn kancheong one - they all want to shoot first. Most go first shoot. Second shoot, then less tadpoles - if less tadpoles rushing the beach, less chance one will make a beach-head Seriously - you go to fertility doc - they will tell you can only "try" every 2nd or third day. Must save up the tadpoles for maximum chance one nod nod.. too chim for me.... its still belle's fault for teaching her gf Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raymondism Twincharged August 29, 2011 Share August 29, 2011 (edited) in any case... i apologise for posting nonsense... but my point is: it has already happened... pitpointing whose fault is pointless now.... so Ms Belle.. pls focus on your gf instead of the bf...... Edited August 29, 2011 by Raymondism Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Belle_femme Neutral Newbie August 29, 2011 Author Share August 29, 2011 Porker is right... when we see a friend walking towards a building on fire, we should stop him or her..... but Belle didn't :angry: If I knew it would turn out this way, I'll definately not leave my friend in the lurch. Things went BAU, with the guy being sweet and all till the pregnancy happened. So it came as a shock to us too *frowns* Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Belle_femme Neutral Newbie August 29, 2011 Author Share August 29, 2011 no.. he is just insensitive... u cannot blame him for being insensitive as it is his nature.... unless he tell your gf that he will bring her there and did not turn up then he is at fault for lying... he has one fault, not protecting the girl and the new life... tats all Actually we're kind of disappointed with our gf too. (We meaning our female groupie) Because she made the decision to abort. I'm not a saint, I guess it would have been a difficult position if that happened to me. So naturally, we're angry with the guy. Anyway, I know its unfair to be angry and pointles too. I'm not saying all guys are bad. My apologies to the guys who took offence if I was misinterpreted that way. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joseph22 Turbocharged August 29, 2011 Share August 29, 2011 If I knew it would turn out this way, I'll definately not leave my friend in the lurch. Things went BAU, with the guy being sweet and all till the pregnancy happened. So it came as a shock to us too *frowns* play boy are like that when they want to bed the girl. they will turn nasty once they have your body. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tianmo Hypersonic August 29, 2011 Share August 29, 2011 (edited) Actually we're kind of disappointed with our gf too. (We meaning our female groupie) Because she made the decision to abort. I'm not a saint, I guess it would have been a difficult position if that happened to me. So naturally, we're angry with the guy. Anyway, I know its unfair to be angry and pointles too. I'm not saying all guys are bad. My apologies to the guys who took offence if I was misinterpreted that way. Let her settle down...............try to give her as much support as possible..........after that close the chapter............and move on............ It is not the end of the world..............What is done.........cannot be undone............let it be a lesson learned to all in your group......... The world will not stay still because of this...............fault or no fault will be forgotten with the passing time............help her put all behind and move on from there...........there is always a reason for something to happen.............tomorrow shall be a better day!!!!... Edited August 29, 2011 by Tianmo Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sabbie Clutched August 29, 2011 Share August 29, 2011 In the case of an unwanted pregnancy, who's fault is that? I have a gf who got pregnant lately and her beau chided her for not taking birth control pills. ZOMG!!! some kind of guy that is... worthless trash I say *curses* Prevention of pregnancy is a shared responsibility and us women shouldn't be expected to shoulder this accountability all by ourselves *sings... all... by.... myself.......* Since this is a male dominated arena, I want to hear what guys have to say.... Guys, please shoot, women... please gripe. Also, I believe in karma. Abortion will incur bad karma.. My gf has since undergone abortion and trust me, I still curse that animal responsible every night before I sleep. Obviously your gf's fault for being a S L U T...if she dun open her legs can she get pregnant? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tigerwoods Turbocharged August 29, 2011 Share August 29, 2011 (edited) In the case of an unwanted pregnancy, who's fault is that? I have a gf who got pregnant lately and her beau chided her for not taking birth control pills. ZOMG!!! some kind of guy that is... worthless trash I say *curses* Prevention of pregnancy is a shared responsibility and us women shouldn't be expected to shoulder this accountability all by ourselves *sings... all... by.... myself.......* Since this is a male dominated arena, I want to hear what guys have to say.... Guys, please shoot, women... please gripe. Also, I believe in karma. Abortion will incur bad karma.. My gf has since undergone abortion and trust me, I still curse that animal responsible every night before I sleep. The invention of contraceptives has changed the human genome code to that of a Selfish, Pleasure-seeking, Promiscuous, Bustards. Sadly, the one that doesn't take these contraceptives are the ones that develop the above symptoms more than the one that take. Does that make you feel better ? But seriously, Sex should be reserved after marriage. Once people count in this sequence ; 1,3,2 all hell breaks loose. (1 - courtship, 2, Marriage, 3- Sex) Edited August 29, 2011 by Tigerwoods Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darryn Turbocharged August 29, 2011 Share August 29, 2011 Obviously your gf's fault for being a S L U T...if she dun open her legs can she get pregnant? Ok. I bite. If she is slut, what is he? His behavior exactly same with moral cowardice thrown in. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tigerwoods Turbocharged August 29, 2011 Share August 29, 2011 You know the worst part? The animal refuses to accompany her for the abortion!! I feel like killing him if I could. He merely texted "I will pay for the abortion" *wails*... you know how heartbreaking that is to a woman? Hope you will stop giving in to your BF as well, since men who wants sex before marriage are not ready for responsibilities. The one who says they are ready are lying wolves. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sabbie Clutched August 29, 2011 Share August 29, 2011 Ok. I bite. If she is slut, what is he? His behavior exactly same with moral cowardice thrown in. He is a B A S T A R D and she's a s l u t , that's why they are a match made in heaven and screwed on earth... ↡ Advertisement Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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