Younger hubby? It

[Furrynadz]

u just realised?

[Mean76]

Gosh...... not that i bad hearted or what but we shall see how long can they last. Mayb the girl no prob but the guy? 20 yr old n a father......... can he bear the responsibilities of being a father? can he forgo the freedom n stay at home to look after children when his peers are out partying whole nite long? We shall see

 

It's not only the responsiblilty ... Unless the fellow is a super streetwise fellow or a richie boy, else be able to command a pay to sustain a growing family after NS is a tall order.

 

A career take years to build up. At least to me.

[Freestylers09]

just like old man lust over younger gals ma..its human nature de wa

[Shull]

actually..not every 20yo think of clubbing and partying all day long..

 

in fact, i prefer to stay at home, accompanying gf and family to watch tv..in fact, if possible, i wanna start family early..

 

prob he's a family man..

[Blackyv]

piak until too song zuah inside

 

yalor...quite classic of a student piak teacher...

[Roborovskii]

Relak bro I am not arguing with you just relating experiences of the people around me. But yes its true that more marriages these days seem to fall apart quicker then the yesteryears. I guess it could partially be the influence of "Hollywood lifestyles", liberalization and the shift towards individualism. Sad thing is I don't foresee the situation getting any better. Maybe MIW should also place strong focus on making families work, rather then just twist the policies to encourage baby making.

[Davidklt]

As long as they are happy. what right do we have to interfere?

[Scion]

married in June... baby due in NOV... same year? hmmm shot guy?

 

 

wow a 12 yr gap... that's really quite alot. think it's easy to forsee all the possible problems that will come up slowly over time, but we'll never know what e outcome will be, hopefully it'll be a long lasting marriage.... as for me I'd never marry an older woman, because of the various reasons.

 

 

well, if i'm 20 and my gf is lin zhi ling at 34, i certainly won't mind

[Hishercar]

if their love is true fine and good

 

if not

 

in about 30 times

 

the physical difference will be very great

 

if no money for botox and etc

 

 

it may be difficult

 

 

we know someone who a guy who is about 20 years the girl senior

 

 

now when they are together people think he is walking with his daughter

 

 

he is down with Parkinsons disease and she is living in hell on earth right now

 

he is slowly loosing his memory

 

she is only 40 years old this year

[Furrynadz]

u sound experienced in that field

[Gantan88]

Anything is possible in this world. A younger hubby of 12 years difference is no big deal. My concern is the age of the guy when they got married. The guy seems too young and his thinking and philosophy of life may change when he grows older and this may affect the marriage. The baby does not necessarily create/strengthen the bond between the couple but instead become the victim of a broken marriage. But well.. give them the support, everything may turn out well although by default to me, such marriage has a lower rate of success.

[Acemundo]

haha yeah lor....i think the shift from family-oriented to individua-oriented contributed greatly to the divorce rates.

[Blackyv]

no such luck leh...

[Mean76]

When we married another person.

 

It's "till death do us part, for better or for worst". If the other person cannot take the vow. The marriage will end up in smoke.

 

Let's hope your friend can overcome this difficult period with her husband.

[Kingcopa]

Yup. I took ard 7-8yr to earn my current pay after my NS.

[Mean76]

To add on...

 

And it's still not sufficient!!

[Kingcopa]

hahaha who will think they already have enu $$$$$

[Hoppie24]

It is blessed that they are able to connect and find love in each other. As long as there is marital bliss and can live together harmoniously, I'm sure it's wayyyy better than living with another partner in daily disagreements and quarrels.

 

Why get pregnant when he is not even working? Won't the child suffer when he come to earth? Sting on milk powder, need to buy melamine stain milk etc. This is strange, use big head to think before using the small head.........that's what i feel. Unless the lady is making big bucks and dun mind but seems they are struggling.