Younger guys = no no ??

[Watwheels]

Not true leh. You drive lorrlee and your wife wants you and some more bear you children wor.

[Twofouronenite]

My friend's wife is 2 years older. No problem.

[Freestylers09]

true and not true

 

true is see what the gal want from the guy or he can provide

 

not true is see what the gal in the r/s other than what a guy can provide instead

[Albeniz]

i agree

last time my father told me a chinese proverb

basically meaning:

if one is poor,

no one will visit him even if he is next door

if one is well to do,

many will visit even if he is living in a far away mountain

 

人穷无近邻，人富有远亲?

[Akula]

2.5 yrs is ok. Perhaps the lady feels that ur friend is immature and thus needed to be taken care.

[Sparks]

It all depends on whether there is mutual attraction in the first place, and don't be too concerned about age gap. I have a guy friend who is about 3 years younger than his wife, but they are happily married with one handsome kid too. His wife has more earning power than him and is quite pretty, I'm sure it's mutual attraction.

 

I would say the guy being 1-3 years younger should not be a problem. Talking about maturity, not all girls are much matured than the guys of the same age though, I feel.

[Josho]

No point hanging on to someone who do not like him back. There's a lot of girls out there, maybe found a girl who is super sticky? Age is not the main factors, rather then how it should go for in a relationship. You accept of what it is and nothing. If the person already complain on age, whats the use of pursuing? hee

[Albeniz]

No point hanging on to someone who do not like him back. There's a lot of girls out there, maybe found a girl who is super sticky? Age is not the main factors, rather then how it should go for in a relationship. You accept of what it is and nothing. If the person already complain on age, whats the use of pursuing? hee

 

Agree.

[Maroon5]

quite tough....esp if the is the quite sought after type...

[Poper]

Have a friend whose feeling rather depressed lately, been trying to win the heart of a lady 2.5yrs his senior.

 

Both have stable careers, are in their mid-late twenties and very good friends, lady is not willing to take another step forwards because of age.

 

Age is just a number; If a gal don't feel that a guy is mature, even 10 years physically older also no point.. My wife is 1 year older than me but I'm the one who "taught" her more things as she's the homely kind while I'm more "exposed" thru work/friends.. Most imptly, we can talk and learn from each other..

 

Perhaps, the "issue" may be on your friend rather than on the gal??

 

[Drive_carcar]

stop consoling urself please!

 

I'm already 40+ liao and I'm not poor leh, maybe I'm just too "color wolf" look .... so even china avoid me.

[Ah_liang]

My wife is older than me by 2+ years, no issue.

[Brock]

Two names:

Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher.

[Jamesc]

2.5 yrs is nothing.

 

Your fren is a great catch and its the lady's loss.

[Powerhouse]

U need chemistry. Without it, nothing. Absolutely nothing.