Tkseah Turbocharged August 5, 2009 Share August 5, 2009 u cannot control or track down every fella who is interested in your partner lah.. for every fella u know who is interested in your partner, there may be 5 more whom u r not aware of.. bottomline is u need to focus on maintaining your relationship with your partner so that your partner can be trusted to be faithful to u.. once that trust is gone then it's time to let go.. ↡ Advertisement Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vectrasonic 2nd Gear August 5, 2009 Share August 5, 2009 (edited) Does ur GF know that u found out? If she doesn't, then tell her abt it. Ask her not to see him, sms or call. But you must trust her if she agree. Give her sometime too. Beating up or direct approach the guy is not a wise thing. Ur GF will never like it and maybe you will regret in the future. Edited August 5, 2009 by Vectrasonic Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Watwheels Supersonic August 5, 2009 Share August 5, 2009 If you know someone wants to tackle your partner, be it wife or girlfriend, what do you do ? Funny and serious suggestions are most welcomed. Tackle your partner? I didn't know your wife is a wrestler. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dunno Neutral Newbie August 5, 2009 Share August 5, 2009 but many relationship got affair problems because of blind trust ... no ? Blind trust is not a problem. The problem only happens when one party breaks that trust. If you trust that you partner is loyal, regardless of who tries to tackle her, you need not worry or have too big a reaction. Once you break that trust, then you find problems start coming your way because you distrust what your partner says or do. This will pull both of you apart and give the 3rd party even better chance. This trust also applies to your partner. It works both ways. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vextan 1st Gear August 5, 2009 Author Share August 5, 2009 u cannot control or track down every fella who is interested in your partner lah.. for every fella u know who is interested in your partner, there may be 5 more whom u r not aware of.. bottomline is u need to focus on maintaining your relationship with your partner so that your partner can be trusted to be faithful to u.. once that trust is gone then it's time to let go.. well said. i have learnt. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vextan 1st Gear August 5, 2009 Author Share August 5, 2009 yup, i broke up with my 1st bf just to let him be with another gal as he was 2 timing then. they were married then oh my. i guess you did the wise thing. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xtravagant Clutched August 5, 2009 Share August 5, 2009 Tackle your partner? I didn't know your wife is a wrestler. can be footballer or rugby player also what. . . Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vextan 1st Gear August 5, 2009 Author Share August 5, 2009 anyway why i ask is because mrs attended a job interview and the interviewer, despite knowing her marital status, still got the cheek to sms her to date her. she ignored but he was quite persistent. she showed me the msg and i dont know what to do. i know his office though. should i go there to tell him off ? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yeshe Turbocharged August 5, 2009 Share August 5, 2009 attack physically? its asking trouble from the police. dont worry, its non seizeable offence IF without weapons Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yeshe Turbocharged August 5, 2009 Share August 5, 2009 anyway why i ask is because mrs attended a job interview and the interviewer, despite knowing her marital status, still got the cheek to sms her to date her. she ignored but he was quite persistent. she showed me the msg and i dont know what to do. i know his office though. should i go there to tell him off ? go straight to the HR, considered as sexual harassment if he is using that as a tool to bargain for employment. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pentrain Clutched August 5, 2009 Share August 5, 2009 (edited) wa lau..this kind of person.. pui!! if he offers ur mrs the job, ask her better not to take.. i tink just ignoring his sms will do..sooner or later he will give up, unless he comes to your house and find u Edited August 5, 2009 by Pentrain Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yoongf 4th Gear August 5, 2009 Share August 5, 2009 anyway why i ask is because mrs attended a job interview and the interviewer, despite knowing her marital status, still got the cheek to sms her to date her. she ignored but he was quite persistent. she showed me the msg and i dont know what to do. i know his office though. should i go there to tell him off ? Me wld think u should ask Mrs for her opinion as to what shall be the next course of action. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lala81 Hypersonic August 5, 2009 Share August 5, 2009 anyway why i ask is because mrs attended a job interview and the interviewer, despite knowing her marital status, still got the cheek to sms her to date her. she ignored but he was quite persistent. she showed me the msg and i dont know what to do. i know his office though. should i go there to tell him off ? just send him an sms saying "if u dun stop doing this as of now, i'm going to send a letter/email to your company CEO and say that HR is harassing potential interviewees instead of doing their job" if i'm a boss, i wld be quite pissed if my HR/manager instead of interviewing new candidates is instead spending his time honging girls Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vextan 1st Gear August 5, 2009 Author Share August 5, 2009 go straight to the HR, considered as sexual harassment if he is using that as a tool to bargain for employment. good suggestion. i will warn him first. really cannot tahan. i am angry that he use his position as a interviewer to contact interviewees for his own agenda. dispicable ! btw, is a credit card company, but the not popular one. not visa, not mastercard. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vextan 1st Gear August 5, 2009 Author Share August 5, 2009 just send him an sms saying "if u dun stop doing this as of now, i'm going to send a letter/email to your company CEO and say that HR is harassing potential interviewees instead of doing their job" if i'm a boss, i wld be quite pissed if my HR/manager instead of interviewing new candidates is instead spending his time honging girls will do that the next time he sms. thanks. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tkseah Turbocharged August 5, 2009 Share August 5, 2009 anyway why i ask is because mrs attended a job interview and the interviewer, despite knowing her marital status, still got the cheek to sms her to date her. she ignored but he was quite persistent. she showed me the msg and i dont know what to do. i know his office though. should i go there to tell him off ? you should just drop him a sms saying your wife has informed you and that he should drop the monkey business.. chances are he will stop once he knows your wife has told you.. this type of predators usually targets in the hope that some ladies wanna play behind their hubby's back.. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xtravagant Clutched August 5, 2009 Share August 5, 2009 you have good Mrs, at least she is being very honest with you. . . discuss with her what to do next, if she accept the job, do consider that the idiot will be more daring. . . if ignoring fails, Mrs should just tell him off. . . any further advances can be reported to the higher management as it is considered sexual harassment.. . . Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rickster 5th Gear August 5, 2009 Share August 5, 2009 suppose you found out accidentally, or if your partner tells you so. Is there any difference in the action that you might take ? If your partner is not responding, its ok. Such things always happens. But if your partner is responding, then its a totally different issue already. ↡ Advertisement Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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