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妹妹....courtship is like this de...no right no wrong...it all depend whether the girl like the boy or not...if yes, no need to play hard to get..just be friendly and go out for date...this will tell the guy..ok..I don't dislike you...to me...being easy is not based on going out for date, dinner or movie...is based on physical intimacy if it just it happened after a short period...at least that's how I judge...

 

Ya but that's to you! If every guys think like you, everything between a guy and a girl would have been better.

When you're too friendly, or open-minded(in a decent way), some guys judge you as "easy to score". Sigh. -_-

Okay, sorry TS for hijacking.

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Bros,

 

A few days ago, started to flirt with a female colleague, it was normal i think.

 

Then I asked her for number to whatsapp her, she said she don't give out her number usually. Then I said ok then , before parting she asked to see my phone and keyed in her number.

 

Yesterday I asked her if she would like a lift home as she is at Jurong and no car, she read the msg but only replied an hour later that she doesn't need a loft.

 

Her messages to me started to slow down last nite.

 

How should I proceed on from here?

 

Just ignore her. Flirt with her once in awhile, then do nothing after that.

 

If she ask where you been over the weekend, tell her you are out with a few girl friends for movies and shopping.

 

Do this over a few weeks and reward will come.

 

Just don't act desperate.

 

 

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I am not her client what, of cos I have her number from my sources but I want to get it from her, her personal number

 

can I have her name and agency bro? [laugh]

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Bros,

 

A few days ago, started to flirt with a female colleague, it was normal i think.

 

Then I asked her for number to whatsapp her, she said she don't give out her number usually. Then I said ok then , before parting she asked to see my phone and keyed in her number.

 

Yesterday I asked her if she would like a lift home as she is at Jurong and no car, she read the msg but only replied an hour later that she doesn't need a loft.

 

Her messages to me started to slow down last nite.

 

How should I proceed on from here?

 

the part when read that you offered her a lift but she took one hour to reply, i sensed that she feels that you are getting alittle too forthright in your actions. try to back off somewhat.

 

dating is a kite game. you need to know when to reel in and out to slacken or tighten the tension depending on circumstances.

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Yeah I agree with some of the bros here..actually in a rs, if you like a gal, the one who calls the shots is the girl..if she a right feeling about you, then everything falls into place easily. All that talk about being handsome, having a nice car are bonus points but ultimately the girl MUST like you for anything to have a beginning.

 

Why? I see some of my galfriends who are gorgeous and yet fall for some street urchin..so in love, everybody stands a chance..you dun have to be the Manchester United to lift the title. [bounce2]

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I think ts same same leh.... Lol

 

Not after the sex la. I don't get attracted to a "standard issue" easily.

 

I am attracted to her sunshine face....she's ever cheerful and well..like a sunshine in the brightest days and darkest nights. Ok..well....i forgot to add, she is only 21, while I am 33. haha.

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