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Sometimes wen doing such good deeds...dun expect to get a thank u....

 

I noe as a security guard in school, most rich parents I encountered r the rude ones...

 

Their children's x2...little devils!! No respect for elderly

 

Many Singaporeans like to 'see face'. They see Foreign workers, or 'low level' job people, they do not show the same friendliness or courtesy.

 

But I think this is not restricted to Singaporeans, but happen almost everywhere, & many places worst, like India. In China, the people from Shanghai & Beijing are known to be more arrogant (not all though) & think they are better than the people from other cities.

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Sometimes wen doing such good deeds...dun expect to get a thank u....

 

I noe as a security guard in school, most rich parents I encountered r the rude ones...

 

Their children's x2...little devils!! No respect for elderly

Is that the reason you go and buy BMW?

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what are some of the unpleasant encounters u guy had where some people just have no simple manners? share here.

 

Today, i was at a hotel and went to my car at a basement to get something. A volvo Xc90 parked and out came a caucasian family, including 2 small girls, and a baby on pram.

 

I got what i needed and walked to the lift and they were approaching the lift too, quite slowly and about 15m away. I held the lift for them.. and they took their time to get in, as the father needed to coax one of the girls to enter,and the mother was having difficulty parking the pram into the lift. so i wait.. i wait.. and the father was the last to enter. Not a single thank.

 

Nvm.

 

Reached their level first.. same, i hold the lift for them, and they took their own sweet time to exit.. i wait.. i wait.. and... Not a single thank.

 

So PRC arent the only one without basic courtesy. Some of these so called Atas expats arent any better either.

 

 

English speaking angmos (Americans, British, Australians, New Zealanders) are generally very friendly and courteous..

 

Eastern europeans (only those who are rich) are very xialan and haolian wan..

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what are some of the unpleasant encounters u guy had where some people just have no simple manners? share here.

 

Today, i was at a hotel and went to my car at a basement to get something. A volvo Xc90 parked and out came a caucasian family, including 2 small girls, and a baby on pram.

 

I got what i needed and walked to the lift and they were approaching the lift too, quite slowly and about 15m away. I held the lift for them.. and they took their time to get in, as the father needed to coax one of the girls to enter,and the mother was having difficulty parking the pram into the lift. so i wait.. i wait.. and the father was the last to enter. Not a single thank.

 

Nvm.

 

Reached their level first.. same, i hold the lift for them, and they took their own sweet time to exit.. i wait.. i wait.. and... Not a single thank.

 

So PRC arent the only one without basic courtesy. Some of these so called Atas expats arent any better either.

if they no manners still nvm, but if they feel they shld enjoy such treatment from us den is another story le

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You really think gentleman and manners really come from the west.. Ang moh say say only.

to be fair lah, i get more thanks from ang mo den the rest... even got from sporean also from gentlemen, nv from the ladies... btw i not lift operator hor

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jus to share my experience, long story short ah, at sun plaza sembawang, waiting for lift to go B2 CP, i at lvl 1.. lift from top reach, few aunties chiong in, to be fair quite crowded waiting for lift, nvm ... den lift come up from B1, the same few aunties there, i cannot tahan, straight away gan them, all of them dun dare look at me in the eye. I HATE SUCH AUNTIES!!!! and for those see me within 2m and still dun wan press the door open one, i will slam my palm at the door as it closes, not afraid to let them know my displeasure.

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Now still got ppl say thank you to the person who holding lift? Its been a long time since i last heard a thank you from ppl when i hold lift for them, many treat me like an invisible man.

I always did....be it an ah mah, a young kid or gentlemen holding the lift for me....

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Is that the reason you go and buy BMW?

 

Got my BMW wen i was doing freelance despatch rider...paid by delivery...good money and Relax job..

 

I dun like stress job...makes me unhealthy...

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do we say thank you to the cleaning uncle or auntie who clears the table at the hawker centre?

 

think we can only control ourselves.. instead of asking why pple are like that.. the best thing to do is to start doing what we expect of others...

if we start to say thank you... soon.. another person will catch on....

 

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do we say thank you to the cleaning uncle or auntie who clears the table at the hawker centre?

 

think we can only control ourselves.. instead of asking why pple are like that.. the best thing to do is to start doing what we expect of others...

if we start to say thank you... soon.. another person will catch on....

lol i nv say thank you to them before, i always help to stack up the plates and anythin else tt i could help, end up they are the ones to say thank you to me

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lol i nv say thank you to them before, i always help to stack up the plates and anythin else tt i could help, end up they are the ones to say thank you to me

 

even if i help them to stack.. i will still say thank you to them..

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