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Neutral Newbie

Yes to both my questions. To me its no big deal really. :D

 

But I have friends who are real fuss nuts about this.

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Neutral Newbie

Do you call your CEO in office by name or starting with Mr xxx ??

 

I have never addressed anyone higher in the management hierarchy with a Mr. before. Everyone, CEO or not, is addressed using their first name. And I am working in global top MNCs.

 

So what's your point again?

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Yes to both my questions. To me its no big deal really. :D

 

But I have friends who are real fuss nuts about this.

Your kids call you by your name?

 

Other kids maybe ok, but not my own kids. No way.

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Neutral Newbie

Your kids call you by your name?

 

Other kids maybe ok, but not my own kids. No way.

 

Yup my kid call me at times by my name. But my kid also respects me a lot. I actually give permission for my kid to call me by my first name. Maybe it's only me but I am failing to see what's the big deal about that.

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Turbocharged

Yup my kid call me at times by my name. But my kid also respects me a lot. I actually give permission for my kid to call me by my first name. Maybe it's only me but I am failing to see what's the big deal about that.

how old are your kids?

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Yes to both my questions. To me its no big deal really. :D

 

But I have friends who are real fuss nuts about this.

 

Do you call your parents by name? Do you call your relatives older in generation than you by name?

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not in my household. Never was allowed by my parents and i will not allow my children to do so too... Call me old fashioned but some line must be drawn somewhere .. At least in my family , everyone acknowledges the elders at the dinner table and "invites" the elders to the meal before they can start eating.

 

Al ot of my friends of the same age group are surprised we do this.....

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I dont know about you. but calling parents as dad and mum is definitely closer to calling people by name.

only friends are called by name. relative older than me i called them by their status.

 

blood relationship is thicker than friends relationship. And calling parents and daddy and mummy is a reinforcement of that close relationship.

 

when my SiL ask me and my wife why i didnt get them to be our child God parents.. i tell them, because Ah yee are closer than Kam ma.

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Neutral Newbie

everyone acknowledges the elders at the dinner table and "invites" the elders to the meal before they can start eating.

We do this as well.

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Neutral Newbie

I dont know about you. but calling parents as dad and mum is definitely closer to calling people by name.

only friends are called by name. relative older than me i called them by their status.

 

blood relationship is thicker than friends relationship. And calling parents and daddy and mummy is a reinforcement of that close relationship.

 

My kid calls me dad, daddy, pa, papa and my name...depending on the mood.

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I have never addressed anyone higher in the management hierarchy with a Mr. before. Everyone, CEO or not, is addressed using their first name. And I am working in global top MNCs.

 

So what's your point again?

How will you address the Prime Minister or ex MM ?

You call them...

Hey Hsien Loong, and

Hey Kuan Yew,

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how old are your kids?

 

 

Old enough to cause me significant dent on credit cards spending every month [:p]

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One reason I can think of is you do not want to admit you are old or you are married. Maybe you should ask your kids to call you "hey bros".

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How will you address the Prime Minister or ex MM ?

You call them...

Hey Hsien Loong, and

Hey Kuan Yew,

 

 

I am failing to see your point. I am talking about kids calling parents by name in the FAMILY. Please don't go out of topic.

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Turbocharged

My kid calls me dad, daddy, pa, papa and my name...depending on the mood.

i think they are still young.

 

but when they are older, and you notice they only call you by name when they are discussing serious stuff with you. then i think you will have to take note liao. cause likely they are not giving the due respect of a parents already. (my opinion only.)

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Old enough to cause me significant dent on credit cards spending every month [:p]

Just take note of my obove comment. you dont want that to happen. cause if it happen, then might not be good. [laugh]

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