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Vextan

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Recently this happened in my circle of acquaintances.

 

Girl age 22 gets to know a boyfriend in her work place, and her bf holds a most prestigious job (no prize for guessing both their jobs). Few months later, gf short gun. She then ask bf if he wants to get married or not. BF says he has to consider, then he hinted that maybe it is better not to get married this time round, but to continue their r/s and then in the future then get married, in other words he hinted that he doesnt want her to give birth this time (obviously, means abortion).

 

The girl then told him if he doesnt want the baby this time, then they will break off. The guy then give in, and they finally booked a rom date, somtime in march i think.

 

the guy then broke the news to his mother, but his mother was skeptical about the girl (as expected since mothers are protective towards their own son), and warned the son that she may be using this as a threat to bind him down.

 

So now the son is undecided again, and the girl in question is very sad.

 

What will you do if you are the guy ?

 

If you are the girl what will you do ?

 

As a parent will you encourage him to take up responsibility, or ask him not to risk his future ahead with a relationship just a few months old ?

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Watwheels

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If I'm the guy, I will go doctor to confirm whether the baby is mine first dan make decision. :D

 

 

Men tell small lies: "the dress look sgood on you."

 

Women tell big lies: "nah. this is your baby."

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Freestylers09

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Recently this happened in my circle of acquaintances.

 

Girl T age 22 gets to know a boyfriend in her work place, and her bf holds a most prestigious job (no prize for guessing both their jobs). Few months later, gf short gun. She then ask bf if he wants to get married or not. BF says he has to consider, then he hinted that maybe it is better not to get married this time round, but to continue their r/s and then in the future then get married, in other words he hinted that he doesnt want her to give birth this time (obviously, means abortion).

 

The girl then told him if he doesnt want the baby this time, then they will break off. The guy then give in, and they finally booked a rom date, somtime in march i think.

 

the guy then broke the news to his mother, but his mother was skeptical about the girl (as expected since mothers are protective towards their own son), and warned the son that she may be using this as a threat to bind him down.

 

So now the son is undecided again, and the girl in question is very sad.

 

What will you do if you are the guy ?

 

If you are the girl what will you do ?

 

As a parent will you encourage him to take up responsibility, or ask him not to risk his future ahead with a relationship just a few months old ?

 

 

if he have a good job, $ not concern,why not?

 

if income not stable,if they are smart enuff ,they will not keep the baby,wait they suffer is worst

 

 

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Vextan

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If I'm the guy, I will go doctor to confirm whether the baby is mine first dan make decision. :D

a bit crude right ? [laugh]

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Vextan

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simple, 1 2 F ard , be prepare to face e consequences n responsibility. wat other tinks is irrelevant

yeah but now iat stake is a life, and also concern two person's life long future, so has to seriously consider then act , right ?

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Agentwilson

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btw, the guy is 26 yrs old, going into ns soon.

 

most prestigious job la, u say leh ? easy to guess right ?

 

 

sure doctor?

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The_Bear

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oh..okay..I just find short gun degrading. :D

 

The choices are limited and in reality, they are in a Farktub situation that is gonna change their life.

 

They know their choices. No one can compel either party to do anything be it marriage, abortion or single parent.

 

None of the above are really perfect choices but each of them have to live the choices made or not made.

 

If getting married is the solution, which I dun think so, then do it.

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