Need advice..

[Baphomet]

not directing at you...

 

just saying that this forums alot of rich men... who probably won't understand your problems

 

haha understand understood. . was just joking.

[Mustank]

My friends also say the same

[Freestylers09]

omg,that was the number i dreamt and bought

 

0029,2900 tmr whack!!!

[Baphomet]

I invited my mum to stay with my family bec to need her to take care if the kids

 

She is a great help. Grandparents are a blessing for kids

 

i can't...both my in-laws and my parents are still working..

 

They are all young grandparents..

 

I think marrying young and having kids young are in the genes of both me and my wife's family

[Mazdaowner]

Nothing comes free, also siblings will not be too happy with such arrangements.

 

very well said indeed.

 

for me, i will think what is more important , money or privacy\comfort ? then the decision is clear. but dont forget you stay with your in laws you more or less have toc ontribute some money to cover the expenses\rental to them.

 

[Mazdaowner]

If you keep worrying about the future, who's worrying for you when you're old and grey?

Again, my old saying about the bridges.

 

haiz...i bought a car because me and my wife working hours very hard to send kid to childcare and yet make it to work in time...

 

 

actually the plan was to rent out till im able to get a new flat. then I will just stay there..dun intend to rent out anymore from

 

then on..

 

This est 5 years of rental should be able to cover my kid's future studies.

 

[Gearoil]

i think this is the first time u never suan a TS problem but encouraging

 

To be sarcastic but always truthful is many many times better than trying to play wayang and offer false hopes and wrong advices.

 

You count how many of your of frds you have, belong to the blunt and truthful types and you got a picture of how and why you are steering your life, according to where it is going now.

[Mazdaowner]

And that being said is truth in itself.

To be sarcastic but always truthful is many many times better than trying to play wayang and offer false hopes and wrong advices.

 

You count how many of your of frds you have, belong to the blunt and truthful types and you got a picture of how and why you are steering your life, according to where it is going now.

 

[Baphomet]

If you keep worrying about the future, who's worrying for you when you're old and grey?

Again, my old saying about the bridges.

 

 

to me, life is all about my responsibilities.. my responsibilities to my parents..my responsibilities to my wife.. my responsibilities to my children..

 

bor bian la.

Edited November 19, 2010 by Baphomet

[Superyandao]

TS it is really un-believerable yr ttl income of 6.5K have no saving. But the advantages is you still young and may still have another 2 more 10yrs. I think you have to look into what have you contributing on yr high expenses and adjusting your lives style to start saving.

 

Yr inlaw may have known that and trying to help unless if you don mind about privacy otherwise hv to start searching where went wrong.

 

gotta be fair. i think TS is quite impressive.

 

getting married at 22 and parent at 23. what to expect? pay would be low. housing and child expenses would be high.

 

now at 28 kid is 5yo and have car have flat. considering everything, his net worth is similar if not higher than a good number.

 

[Mazdaowner]

No one mentioned about you shunning away from your responsibilities.

If only you could see what I have been thru, then you will know why I

can tell you so to not worry, worrying will only kill you faster, make fortune

tellers richer, and you no more wiser.

 

 

to me, life is all about my responsibilities.. my responsibilities to my parents..my responsibilities to my wife.. my responsibilities to my children..

 

bor bian la.

 

[Mazdaowner]

Yes, impressive indeed, I married at 21, became a father at 22.........and now...

my son is 24yrs old. The hardships of starting early...does pay off in later life,

when one sees one's peers with children younger, slogging to bring them up.

The benefits are bountiful....and now in later years...to be able to watch time

go by, and be able enjoy the fruits of one's labor.

 

I say..............PRICELESS.

 

gotta be fair. i think TS is quite impressive.

 

getting married at 22 and parent at 23. what to expect? pay would be low. housing and child expenses would be high.

 

now at 28 kid is 5yo and have car have flat. considering everything, his net worth is similar if not higher than a good number.

 

[Gearoil]

Yes, impressive indeed, I married at 21, became a father at 22.........and now...

my son is 24yrs old. The hardships of starting early...does pay off in later life,

when one sees one's peers with children younger, slogging to bring them up.

The benefits are bountiful....and now in later years...to be able to watch time

go by, and be able enjoy the fruits of one's labor.

 

I say..............PRICELESS.

 

Priceless...for you maybe...but it runs both ways in having children.

 

On one hand some will be filial...while most will go slashing others!

 

[Davidklt]

Go for it.

 

-Its only temporary.

-There is someone to help you take care of your kid.

-Help builds your savings

-Its family after all. whats there to be pai seh about.

[Gearoil]

Yes, impressive indeed, I married at 21, became a father at 22.........and now...

my son is 24yrs old. The hardships of starting early...does pay off in later life,

when one sees one's peers with children younger, slogging to bring them up.

The benefits are bountiful....and now in later years...to be able to watch time

go by, and be able enjoy the fruits of one's labor.

 

I say..............PRICELESS.

 

Priceless...for you maybe...but it runs both ways in having children.

 

On one hand some will be filial...while most will go slashing others!

 

[Jman888]

Yes, impressive indeed, I married at 21, became a father at 22.........and now...

my son is 24yrs old. The hardships of starting early...does pay off in later life,

when one sees one's peers with children younger, slogging to bring them up.

The benefits are bountiful....and now in later years...to be able to watch time

go by, and be able enjoy the fruits of one's labor.

 

I say..............PRICELESS.

 

 

you boy is losing out, you should be a grand father by now

 

Nowadays many prefer to enjoy now and slog later...... many i know only start to become father after 40

[Baphomet]

Yes, impressive indeed, I married at 21, became a father at 22.........and now...

my son is 24yrs old. The hardships of starting early...does pay off in later life,

when one sees one's peers with children younger, slogging to bring them up.

The benefits are bountiful....and now in later years...to be able to watch time

go by, and be able enjoy the fruits of one's labor.

 

I say..............PRICELESS.

 

 

haha..

 

Hope when i reach that day, I can say the same word.

[Mazdaowner]

Yes, that being said, it runs solely on the parents and the sort of upbringing.

Mine don't have time to go slashing people, that..I'm very sure of.

Priceless...for you maybe...but it runs both ways in having children.

 

On one hand some will be filial...while most will go slashing others!