Help.

[Icedbs]

We no kid.

If annulment, can I remove her from ownership n add my mum name in n pay her some $ ?

 

For this, you will need to discuss with hdb. They view it case to case basis. If it can be done, that's the best.

 

But it also means that she needs to agree to it first.

 

As for the phone recording, I don't think it is enough. it is best that you discuss with a lawyer on this....pay them 1-2 hours for consultation.

 

BTW, if she is working, don't worry too much on the maintenance part. Since no kids, and if you go annulment route (she needs to agree) you probably dun have to pay maintenance.

 

The best way to settle this kind of problem is really to discuss the path forward with her once you have the evidence. No need to be violent or anything. If both decide annulment and willing to use the same lawyer, then the whole issue can be quite straightforward and low cost.

 

Just remember that whatever evidence you have, it has a validity of only 6 months.

 

 

[Kerwen]

sorry to hear that ... as some have mentioned, try to save to your marriage as much possible.

it takes alot of heart to forgive this matter ... 10yrs of rs throw to the drain ...

 

phone recoding think will be use as supporting evidence ... photo or video will give you strong evidence.

 

as for the flat, hdb will follow the order of court from the divorce ... ur wife can do a part transfer to your mother if ur wife agrees & ur mother is eligible

[Blackyv]

u guys got to be kidding me if u believe this chap........ check his profile, register today and here he is sharing his "family"

problem of wife eating outside?... come on..... who is he kidding?....

 

dont forget, school holiday bros......school holiday period....

[questionedfish]

if it's real, pity him lahh

 

if it's not real, play along lahh

[Galantspeedz]

Forgive me cos I feel a forum like this is not the place to find help for marriage councling. There are proper help line out there.

Anyway I dun think ppl would share such private info in an open forum.

 

No worries let give the TS the benefit of the doubt at the moment.

[Nullifi3d]

Could probably have more luck with the guys over @ HWZ. they can CSI the hell out of anyone.

[Vextan]

Forgive me cos I feel a forum like this is not the place to find help for marriage councling. There are proper help line out there.

Anyway I dun think ppl would share such private info in an open forum.

i agree. too often there are newbies whose threads are highly suspicious. dont be fooled into their attention wanting.

Edited November 28, 2010 by Vextan

[Vextan]

there was one thread of a forumer who sounded very young and started a new thread contemplating to buy porshe or merc or audi q7. really quite obvious is just seeking attention. full of nonsesne.

[Orangepineapple]

For this, you will need to discuss with hdb. They view it case to case basis. If it can be done, that's the best.

 

But it also means that she needs to agree to it first.

 

As for the phone recording, I don't think it is enough. it is best that you discuss with a lawyer on this....pay them 1-2 hours for consultation.

 

BTW, if she is working, don't worry too much on the maintenance part. Since no kids, and if you go annulment route (she needs to agree) you probably dun have to pay maintenance.

 

The best way to settle this kind of problem is really to discuss the path forward with her once you have the evidence. No need to be violent or anything. If both decide annulment and willing to use the same lawyer, then the whole issue can be quite straightforward and low cost.

 

Just remember that whatever evidence you have, it has a validity of only 6 months.

 

hmm if able to prove that the wife is committing adultery outside, still need to pay maintenance to her meh? still need to divide assets?

[Yeshe]

Call HDB. I think must sell.

 

cannot just sell, have to surrender back to HDB

[Yeshe]

my wife eating outside. haiz.

i recorded some phone conversation.

finding pi tml.

we marry less than 1 year.

if i dont find pi, the recording is not enough right?

our hdb ard 1year only. wat will hapen to it?

 

are those conversation just flirting or u got the actual act in place?

[Yeshe]

since marriage has already been consumated, annulment is no longer an option right? Especially already have flat and staying together..

 

if already customary marriage, i think cannot use annulment

[Yeshe]

How to save? Wearing green hat leh.

Tis 10+ years relationship , I nv nv touch another woman.

I really can't bring myself to touch her again.

 

u caught her in the act? or only telephone conversation?

[Brucelee]

u caught her in the act? or only telephone conversation?

 

phone conversation abt the night before. talking abt how many time they hv sex.

 

if this cant be use as evidence, but u should know my wife is gone.

 

i never touch other woman in this 10 years + relationship. so sad.

 

[Yeshe]

phone conversation abt the night before. talking abt how many time they hv sex.

 

if this cant be use as evidence, but u should know my wife is gone.

 

i never touch other woman in this 10 years + relationship. so sad.

 

so u know who is the guy? if u wanna save some $$$ on PI, u can do the PI yourself, just tail her when u suspect the operation is on

[Pltang]

i'm surprised.....

 

Instead of finding out why or what could have happen, TS's more interested in selling HDB to get back the $$

 

$ more important? i've never seen a guy so "happily n openly" speaking his love for a green hat

[Brucelee]

i'm surprised.....

 

Instead of finding out why or what could have happen, TS's more interested in selling HDB to get back the $$

 

$ more important? i've never seen a guy so "happily n openly" speaking his love for a green hat

 

 

the hole already use by other ppl. i cant be bother abt wat hapen anymore.

she is 100% wrong.

$$ not important?

i create a new nick to look for advice. do u think i m happy?

 

 

[E_b_l_s]

i'm surprised.....

 

Instead of finding out why or what could have happen, TS's more interested in selling HDB to get back the $$

 

$ more important? i've never seen a guy so "happily n openly" speaking his love for a green hat

 

Of course $ is much more important than anything else. When a (sgp) girl is in her adolescence right up to maybe 20/21, she still has

the hope for "true love". After she has stepped into the working society and sees the true value of $, her so-called "true love"

will only exist with the depth of a guy's pockets. May I also include that this was derived through experience(s). So unless you can

provide monetary security to a girl, you can forget about looking for "true love".

 

Let us all give the thread starter the benefit of doubt. And even if it was a hoax, at least we all can learn something from it. I believe

there will be some brother out there who may be going through the same problem, but can't bring himself to share it with others.