Feeling down?

[Ladykillerz]

The thing is every time after breakup...My heart like [knife] ...

I give my very best and really love her alot....

She can just scold me, vent her anger on me....

But ignoring me and then just walk away suddenly really makes me feel like [bigcry]

Tats why, its kinda hurtful....

I got not once, twice, thrice....But quite a few times in my r/s...

Its almost repeating the whole saga again whenever new r/s comes in...

Makes me kinda give up on SG girls liao....

Sometimes i am thinking, if i'm not as serious in such things....Maybe i wouldn't get so sad abt it...

 

No worries dude, i do have lots of friends around and definitely not those emo types...

 

maybe it's your character, i guess.

i don't think it's a problem but it might just somehow "disturb" your lady in a way.

in the first place, why you kena scolded, why ignoring you, why just walk away suddenly?

instead of feeling sad, want to cry, you need to know the root cause, rectified it and improve from there.

thereon, perhaps all the SG girls will become the bees and you're the honey honey honey. ;-)

[The_Bear]

4 jugs?? Yea.. your stomach and head will feel like detaching from your body after that..

 

You wish the head would just detach the next morning.

[Damienic]

I have been feeling down for the last 14 months since problem started with my job middle of last yr...I always tell myself there would be light at the end of a tunnel and bad things would always come to an end no matter how it seems to last forever...

[Zangetsu77]

I still cannot get that 2nd house at Sentosa....I so depressed [bigcry]

 

Hey, heard from my remisier a few hours ago that the 8000 sq ft bungalow where the unfortunate Chinese girl drowned is up for sale at only S$15.8m. It's way below valuation, so you can just buy it now and refinance in a few months time and then withdraw your principal.

 

Hope this cheers you up... Unless you are da owner!

[Relagsingh]

Yes, I do feel it.

Especialy when the bank account is empty.

I just bought a Honda and placed a $3000 deposit.

Thinkig that I need to fork out another $4000 when the car comes, makes me a little lost. A little silly to buy the new car. Lucky the old car loan is covered by the higher resale price, if not I would have to pay the bank money to sell the old car!

It's a mixed feeling I have now. Like I made a mistake. But knowingly that the new car will give me some driving pleasure. But thinking about the money spent and soon bank will be dry, makes me feel down.

Also the bills for my personal life insurance is due.

And still got one year plus of credit card loan to pay off the LED TV and computers and sound system.

Haiz. Wa eh sim si, xie lang zai?

 

whao... installment for TV, computer and sound system.........................................................................

[Mrlau]

whao... installment for TV, computer and sound system.........................................................................

 

Why not ? He is investing his money in somewhere to earn more money !!!

[Freestylers09]

I depress today coz i foget tap my ezylink card when alight

 

make me lost 1plus n no transfer fee

[So_nice]

we humans are sad creatures. we haf too many forms of attachements. i practise buddhism and i tried to tell myself to be positive, be good to oneself and others. be it even an ant. but sadly i keep seeing these bad events happening in my life. we need to get away from such cycle..but sad to say, how many can really detached from these worldly attachements?

[macrosszero]

........., as surely as the sun will rise

 

And so once again (and all too soon) Night has fallen again, and the world is plunged into darkness.

 

 

I remember when I was 14 we had a solo-night exercise.

 

You got blindfolded, and dropped off in a piece of jungle all alone with nothing apart from your coat. Most significantly, no watches allowed so you could not tell the passage of Time.

You then had to sit tight where you were, and wait for morning.

 

Of course they'd prepped you with ghost stories all night at dinner before that, so that by the time you went for this exercise, you were scared sh!tless.

 

So you spent the night trying to get thru it.

 

Some people played games with the stones they found there.

Others looked at the ground, afraid to look elsewhere for fear of seeing a ghost.

Others looked at the stars.

Other slept.

Others tried to sleep.

 

You could choose to do easy time (overcome your fears, and sleep), or hard time (scare yourself silly with your imagination).

 

You could do anything in the night, but could do nothing to influence the Sun's rise.

 

The sun rose eventually when it did.

 

 

And maybe there's the other lesson : that it didn't matter what you did in the night ...... the sun would rise when it would.

 

 

So now in the depths of depression, I can wallow and be blue, or I can attempt to rise above my misery and what-not and be more productive, etc ..... But maybe it all doesn't matter ...... the sun will rise when it will.

 

Night will give way to Day no matter what you do to pass the Time.

 

[Chewbacca]

A quick browse through the posts:

 

A lot of you seems to have problem with controlling your spendings? I suppose I can tell you guys to live simple, but it's easier said then done, ya?

 

But, anyway, my problem in life is not related to the material plane. All on psychological, emotional and in terms of relationship (or the lack there of, hai).

 

Maybe a bit more elaboration next time.

 

[Mike1234]

maybe it's your character, i guess.

i don't think it's a problem but it might just somehow "disturb" your lady in a way.

in the first place, why you kena scolded, why ignoring you, why just walk away suddenly?

instead of feeling sad, want to cry, you need to know the root cause, rectified it and improve from there.

thereon, perhaps all the SG girls will become the bees and you're the honey honey honey. ;-)

 

One told me " You know you are such a nice person, maybe you deserve someone better out there"

 

The other told me " I guess we are quite different, you know lets don't waste time"

 

And more...

 

But what i feel that, they are just plain excuses....Really wonder what are they thinking.... [confused]

 

Got once, my ex got PMS.....I don't know what i do wrong but she just got very angry wif me...

 

I told her lots of sweet stuff but didn't work....Only when i kneel down n admit my "mistake"....She then smile and say " alright, i shall forgive u"...

 

Wa piang, at that moment i

 

I guess guys are better to understand than girls...

 

[So_nice]

think so much also pointless. gonna haf a smoke. smoke more die faster.

[TortoiseRacer]

One told me " You know you are such a nice person, maybe you deserve someone better out there"

 

The other told me " I guess we are quite different, you know lets don't waste time"

 

And more...

 

But what i feel that, they are just plain excuses....Really wonder what are they thinking.... [confused]

 

Got once, my ex got PMS.....I don't know what i do wrong but she just got very angry wif me...

 

I told her lots of sweet stuff but didn't work....Only when i kneel down n admit my "mistake"....She then smile and say " alright, i shall forgive u"...

 

Wa piang, at that moment i

 

I guess guys are better to understand than girls...

 

Become a gay and maybe you can date brother krado..

[RadX]

Become a gay and maybe you can date brother krado..

 

 

walau sis...you v bad....tsk tsk [:p]

[Mike1234]

Become a gay and maybe you can date brother krado..

 

I'm straight la.... [laugh]

[Chewbacca]

Become a gay and maybe you can date brother krado..

 

I was JUST about to say this. Except date me. Not krado.

 

ME LUV YOU LONG TIME.

 

[Magfocus]

Bro...if you hear my story, you will realise that life has ups and downs...you get stronger with each down and if you weather it and come out of it, you get stromger.....

 

hang in there.....remember, it is all relative, and try and look the forest for the trees

 

Take care

 

Amen bro

[Robo]

I like to share my feeling too...

 

Just broke up..Its sad...its tough

but life still goes on..

i save almost 30K for marraige.

I know this gal 3 year back...together for 1.2 years...sell my car becos she say want to study and i can pay her school fee ..i lose 22k for 1 year car...after a week..she kick me out and go back to her ex..well i give my blessing, its too late to get back my car. after 6 months , that she cannot get along with her ex..

she come back to me...i lost my car...my first car...

yet i want to give her a 2nd chance..we got back...

i fight for my career to give her a better home...she is a malaysian..

yet another 1.3 year together , she say becos of my job..i got no time for her..no care, no romance, and say singaporean guy do not know how to shower love to a girl so another guy step into our relation. i try to forget but i cant..so i went to casino and pump in the money i save for marrige...and lose everything..well to some of u guys,,u may think i am stupid.. but to me , i am not...i just want to forget everything about her...i gave too much...money can earn back but not trust..

i wasted 3 year and my first car which is every guy love with feeling just for a girl.

Total i lose almost over 60k for this girl...well....how should i put it..hai

 

My story....

 

she's a whore HONESTLY

 

forget her and time to pick urself up.

 

gd luck buddy