DOBIEMKZ Turbocharged June 10, 2022 Share June 10, 2022 https://www.scmp.com/news/people-culture/trending-china/article/3180901/man-china-seeks-divorce-wife-16-years-after Man in China seeks divorce from wife of 16 years after paternity tests reveal 3 daughters he raised are not his children A man in China is seeking a divorce after discovering his wife has been having an affair and the coupleβs three children are not his He initially forgave his wife for cheating, but changed his mind after paternity tests revealed the truth about their childrenβs parentage Published: 9:00am, 9 Jun, 2022 A devastated man is seeking a divorce after learning his wife of 16 years was having an affair and none of his three daughters are his biological children. Photo: Handout A 45-year-old man in China is divorcing his wife of 16 years after discovering the three daughters he raised are not his biological children. The man, surnamed Chen, from Jiangxi province, eastern China, has filed for a divorce from his wife, surnamed Yu, after discovering she cheated on him during their marriage and that the coupleβs three daughters were conceived with another man. Chen worked away from home to support his family, but said he initially never suspected his wife of infidelity as they maintained close contact with frequent voice and video calls. However, he became suspicious earlier this year when his wife started avoiding his calls and said she wanted to work away from home, China Jiangxi Radio and TV Station reported yesterday. Chen discovered his wifeβs cheating after tracking her phoneβs GPS to a hotel where she was with another man. Photo: zhihu.com Chen decided to follow Yu by tracking her mobile phoneβs GPS location. On March 1, Chen traced Yu to a hotel in eastern China where she was staying. The next morning Chen saw his wife checking out of the hotel with a man she had been having an affair with. Chen initially forgave Yu, but sought a paternity test that revealed their youngest daughter was fathered by another man. However, Chen chose to stay in the marriage to keep the family together. This changed when further paternity tests revealed the coupleβs other two daughters were also not Chenβs biological children. After this shocking revelation, Yu disappeared and Chen was unable to locate her. He then sought help from local media and was pictured crying with his head in his hands during an interview with China Jiangxi Radio and TV Station. βNone of them was my own child,β said Chen during the interview. Yu, however, remained unrepentant and when tracked down and interviewed by the TV station, she reasoned her behaviour was not infidelity. βI donβt think I cheated on him. Is biological paternity really important? Couples who are sterile adopt kids all the time,β Yu said in a phone interview. She also criticised Chen for seeking a divorce after discovering their three daughters were conceived with another man. βPlease try to empathise with me. The three children called him βdadβ for many years, but now he says the daughters are not his own. What is the difference between him and an animal?β Chinese social media was filled with commentary critical of Yuβs behaviour and disrespect towards her husband. βHow upset the husband was! Is Yu mentally ill?,β asked one online commenter. Chenβs wife was unrepentant about her deception and asked if a blood relationship with a child is so important? Photo: zhihu.com Another asked: βChen could get compensation with the help of the courts. But how can he heal his broken heart after 16 years? βThe husband could file for a divorce if he believed his wifeβs behaviour severely harmed their relationship,β a lawyer, surnamed Zhou, from Beijing Zhongchi Law Firm told China Jiangxi Radio and TV Station. βWhen he applies for a divorce, not only would the law encourage him to ask his wife to reimburse support payments and other expenses he paid for the three children, but he could also seek damages for psychological suffering.β Another lawyer, surnamed Yu, from AllBright Law Offices told NetEase: βChinese law regulates that the person who caused harm to the other partner in a marriage may lose any share of assets in a subsequent divorce.β Β β‘ Advertisement 2 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamesc Hypersonic June 10, 2022 Share June 10, 2022 CuckooΒ 2 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamesc Hypersonic June 10, 2022 Share June 10, 2022 Always look on the bright side. If he likes one of his daughters he can marry her when she grows up. No related right? 2 5 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Watwheels Supersonic June 10, 2022 Share June 10, 2022 Just divorce the cheater and walk away from the family that is not his. It's not like he has to pay alimony. He is a free man. Sell the house and leave for good. Should be rejoicing, not crying. 3 3 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
mersaylee Hypersonic June 10, 2022 Share June 10, 2022 8 minutes ago, Jamesc said: Always look on the bright side. If he likes one of his daughters he can marry her when she grows up. No related right? ...and greet the x wife as mil? π 5 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamesc Hypersonic June 10, 2022 Share June 10, 2022 2 minutes ago, mersaylee said: ...and greet the x wife as mil? π 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
mersaylee Hypersonic June 10, 2022 Share June 10, 2022 1 minute ago, Jamesc said: Now you know right...? Lust time neber tink properly...now stuck with the beloved mil... ...i can only say you're not alone...π 3 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Inlinefour Twincharged June 10, 2022 Share June 10, 2022 ζ¦ε€§ιιδΈδΊζ½ιθ² πππ 4 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arogab Turbocharged June 10, 2022 Share June 10, 2022 This story not new to me, I have someone I know very well happen to him 2 times in the 20 years. First time found out the kid not his after 3 years, second time he smarter, after that went to test on his his again. But I just wondering how can these people not detect the thingπ. Means this person I know also anyhow poke lah. But the man in the news different from the guy I know. Just he was dupe for so many years could be a pain 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beregond Supersonic June 10, 2022 Share June 10, 2022 (edited) remind me of this show. Listen to the first storyΒ π Β damn power Β Edited June 10, 2022 by Beregond 3 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Inlinefour Twincharged June 10, 2022 Share June 10, 2022 44 minutes ago, Beregond said: remind me of this show. Listen to the first storyΒ π Β damn power actually everywhere also have but just most people kept mum because of family reputation as mentioned by the talkshow lawyer π€«π€«π€« 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamesc Hypersonic June 10, 2022 Share June 10, 2022 If any young couple try and try and cannot get. I can help donate. Put in also possible. (if wife is chio bu la) 5 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamesc Hypersonic June 10, 2022 Share June 10, 2022 When I was young I was very handsome and had many gfs. Sometimes on the street I see kids that look a bit like me. Maybe I got kids I don't know about. 1 3 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Windwaver Turbocharged June 10, 2022 Share June 10, 2022 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Volvobrick Hypersonic June 10, 2022 Share June 10, 2022 2 hours ago, mersaylee said: ...and greet the x wife as mil? π Is that why someone's MIL so nasty to him?Β 5 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
1fast1 Supersonic June 10, 2022 Share June 10, 2022 3 hours ago, Jamesc said: If he still has feelings for his ex and she becomes his MIL, then... ...does that make her a MILILF? π 4 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
DOBIEMKZ Turbocharged June 10, 2022 Author Share June 10, 2022 2 hours ago, Beregond said: remind me of this show. Listen to the first storyΒ π Β damn power Β Sometimes when one is too good to Darlene, she takes it for granted and treats that as a weakness to exploit you.Β π 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sosaria Twincharged June 10, 2022 Share June 10, 2022 4 hours ago, Watwheels said: Just divorce the cheater and walk away from the family that is not his. It's not like he has to pay alimony. He is a free man. Sell the house and leave for good. Should be rejoicing, not crying. If he's still young sure rejoicing. But he's already middle aged and how to restart again, even if he did, his youth is gone; he's already 45 β‘ Advertisement Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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