Guy treating gals.

[Qpik]

sis ....u so hiong ah...pay in body ah..

 

i said JUST KIDDING

 

don't tok abt workg...schoolg also the same mah, pple also hv father/mother slogging to pay their school fees. want to go out also must go DUTCH.

[Qpik]

 

i used to hv gfrens who hv no qualms abt takg advantage fm both gender. so they bcame HISTORY

[Deathism]

took girls out a few times..

 

all gave me money for their share, but i insisted on it being my treat.

 

 

 

only that one girl...

 

shoved the money into my pants pocket (her whole hand went in)

 

 

thats when little nicky jumped for joy and got big headed.

 

 

 

ah well..no regrets so far.

 

 

they're all my friends aniwae..wads a few bucks between us..

Edited September 17, 2008 by Deathism

[Blue2]

luckily u no say pay back in "fresh"...

 

but we Singaporean leh...how to be Dutch

[Snowbell]

should zi dong. Nowadays still want to talk about equality.

 

We go out guy and girl, take turns to treat each other too. Very automatic one.

[Qpik]

So you saying if want to chase girl, must keep treating her? Or does girls expect guys to treat them in order to purse them? These all sounded so superficial leh.

eh r u saying "pursue" them or "purse" them as in "carrot them"?

[Wbucket]

Ya. I always run into trouble when I fixed my target too early. Ended like always blinded to the fact we might not be meant for each other. Ya, just enjoy the company first.

[Blue2]

wait...wait...wait....

 

TS no say..go out with girl how many time....

 

wait less than 1 hand nia

[Blue2]

enjoy...but also remember not to be taken too advantage...

 

of course there are ways to avoid it

[Qpik]

spore liang lagi best...don't paiseh ...tok 1st...eh, tonite i ask u out but we split okay cos i not workg u not workg...if can't then set a budget lor

[Qpik]

but if we tell u all, then it defeat the fun of finding it out on yr own

[Akula]

Bro, girls/women expects to be pampered when being chased, hell even when not being chased they also expect it, ESPECIALLY the chio ones. End of the day only you can decide if the lady is "worth it". If yes, please continue to do so, else like I mention, cut your losses.

 

After 2/3 dates might be a bit premature to make a decision, perhaps a few more dates will yield a clearer picture.

 

OR, she might still be young/feel young and trying to enjoy while able, might or might not be taking you for a ride.

 

"Or does girls expect guys to treat them in order to purse them? These all sounded so superficial leh". Superficial???? Yes to a certain extent, welcome to the world.

[Kezg1]

Why are you going out again if you are so irritated....she might have other thinking in her mind....go figure out

[Wbucket]

I also don't mind girl shoving hand into my pants to give me money.

 

However, the key point here is maybe on the point of being quiet about it and like nothing happened like that. I have no problem with other female friends, we take turns treating each other too. Maybe I seriously thinking too much.

[Mazdaowner]

Err...that time I blanja you how?

tell them either pay back in kind or in body lor

[Ender]

Here's my take. If it's a date, than the guy pay 1st initially. Only when go steady, very close liao, than sometime she tpay, sometime I pay.

 

If official or friend friend type meeting, then try our best to split the bill. Must thick skin abit.

[Wbucket]

Thought she might have forgotten, hoping she will make a note about it or something on the next occasion. Well, 2 times is enough to know that's not going to happen.

[Sony]

Like to check on views of bros here about treating female friends to meals. Say, if 2 people (a guy and a gal) met for a meal. Guy would usually pay first, right. Then gal keep quiet and like nothing happened. No mention about the cost of the meal, what-so-ever. Have any bros encounter this before?

 

My take is I don't mind treating, but being quiet about it and like nothing happened just gives me the feeling that I was taken for granted.

 

I have heard from female friend said before, when a guy ask her out, he is supposed to pay for everything because she wouldn't have need to spend money if the guy never ask her out. My first impression is "WTF".

 

Do you think you stand a chance to remove her panties??? If not, move on.....

 

 

if the other party like to go commando style, then your theory doesn't stand.. even triming the bush don't hold water liao