Feeling a little bit emo...

[Scion]

one thing never changes.... the same 2 reasons why a man will emo - money and woman

[Fitvip]

Get the cheapest cabrio in town, M.R.S.

 

Confirm looks stylo milo.

Copen can?

[inlinesix]

Copen can?

Copen too small la

[SiLangKia]

Go to a siam dui .........you will feel better.

 

hahahaha thanks! next week i try 

That’s the very accent of life as a box of what have you...sourness, sweetness, bitterness, spiciness, saltiness, all in a single package.

 

Sometimes, it can be a little bit too much of one type to stomach...

 

Just remember that tough time won’t last, as there’s only the sunshine even rainbow after a storm.

 

Trees may fall, walls may tumble, we’ll stand tall to welcome the new tomorrow.

 

How poetic! Thanks! True, tough times won't last, hope I learn a valuable lesson thru this season HAHA

Dun sweat the small stuff

 

There are many fish in the sea

Your emotions are as such due to what’s happening in the office and it spills over

 

Take a step back and see that life is more than that

 

As long as they aren't dead fish from the sea near Lim Chu Kang     

 

Thanks bro, I'll take a step back and try to view things from a diff perspective

mcf become the male-centric flowerpod forum

 

everything will pass, take it one step at a time.

 

hahah literally taking it step by step day by day now

NB, you so young n yian tao scare no char bor ah! Wish could be in your shoes 30 years ago....

 

Concentrate on you career first bro. Time is on your side, Lovely ones will showed up eventually....

 

You are a good kid bro. 

 

旧的不去新的不来。。。

 

Thanks for seeing me so up bro I'm flattered!

 

hahahaha time on my side ar that's good to hear! hahahaha I'll wait for the correct lovely one lor

 

Thanks for thinking I'm good, means alot  :)

Come come. Join the old men for noodles and beer. Tio boh @hoseyboh

 

Onz!

4 resignation a week average

[SiLangKia]

Bro SiLangKia, take a break from the daily routine to reset the scene

 

Go on a unplanned holiday overseas and just do (or undo) what takes your fancy

 

Sounds really wise, will take some leave to do something not routine, still have 15 unused days hahaha!

why mention me? miss me ah?  I come visit u in ur dream ok?    

 

Hahahaah actually hor, I don't really have any regrets and I've done what I feel i need to so if can go heaven abit earlier also not bad...but if it's hell then PLEASE DONT DREAM OF ME TOLONG TOLONG    

Bro, whenever i feel down, i always look at the below picture (the photographer actually killed himself after this photo won him a Pulitzer) and the story behind it, our problems r really minuscule compared to these poor souls..

 

I know i'm like an old man always singing the people in africa got nothing to eat or drink sob story blah blah... but it's good to know we live in a good place where alot of our issues can be solved or rectify if we just be calm n rational abt it, unlike those who r born without a choice.

 

Do take care n enjoy ur netflix Dark series  

 

 

 

 

Thanks for sounding me out bro! I do always rmb that I am very blessed by God to be living here and have creature comforts and stay in a safe clean place and have no lack, and on hindsight my problems aren't that bad after all, just feeling abit down but I'm still grateful and I know it will pass:)

 

Yes hahah going to watch soon!

[Playtime]

hahahaha thanks! next week i try

 

 

How poetic! Thanks! True, tough times won't last, hope I learn a valuable lesson thru this season HAHA

 

 

As long as they aren't dead fish from the sea near Lim Chu Kang

 

Thanks bro, I'll take a step back and try to view things from a diff perspective

 

 

hahah literally taking it step by step day by day now

 

 

Thanks for seeing me so up bro I'm flattered!

 

hahahaha time on my side ar that's good to hear! hahahaha I'll wait for the correct lovely one lor

 

Thanks for thinking I'm good, means alot :)

 

 

Onz!

 

 

Ya it's quite bad where I am, but trying to help my boss and just lun and stay on till there's an addition to the team.

 

hahaha yeah I am adventurous but right now feel abit guilty if I just leave so just waiting out abit

 

 

Hahahaha lollll at the song thanks for cheering me up!

 

hahahaha no need meet mcf goddess la that one you can have the honour!

 

 

hahahaha i do go curch but not with RadX, don't want to get horrified by him hhahaha! And yes, seeking life's answer!

 

 

HAHAHA wa I'm actually drinking this now while replying this post!

 

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Not being negative here..

 

Hard lesson, you may have loyalty to your job and colleagues, but remember that the company will never have loyalty to you if things are that bad.

When time comes, it will just cut loss.. sho if you got opportunity, just go.. is just a company, not a wife, you are allowed to look around and have affairs or divorces... in fact, look like you should.

[therock]

This Wednesday

Food to try

https://eatbook.sg/pasir-panjang-food-centre/

 

Mee Pok and chicken rice are nice

 

There’s a parking area just in front of it

Or an alternative is 3 min walk with an entrance before the MRT pickup point

[SiLangKia]

Not being negative here..

 

Hard lesson, you may have loyalty to your job and colleagues, but remember that the company will never have loyalty to you if things are that bad.

When time comes, it will just cut loss.. sho if you got opportunity, just go.. is just a company, not a wife, you are allowed to look around and have affairs or divorces... in fact, look like you should.

 

That is true! A few wise ppl including yourself have told me that before. I am starting to look around alr, in fact a few months back i did tender but was asked to stay on as they needed ppl so i relented and agreed, but it's getting tougher each day as the individual workload increases as others resign

At least he din cum n cry farder marder about....knobs and buttons on a MB. Lol

 

cos can't even afford a MB ma, no right to KPKB 

[SiLangKia]

Sometimes my post seems very wise.

 

But a wise man does not give great answers.

 

He ask wise wise questions.

 

And the most important question is

 

the ex that is so touchy touchy with the new bf you makan already or not?

 

 

[SiLangKia]

Dont worry. I think it's norm to feel stressed out. Just take a break. 

A lot of ppl spent so much time at work they dont have time for anything, not even love life. Your friend who borrowed your car his date should have lobang bah? Ask him to return the favour for using your car.

 

Thanks for the encouragement! Trying to find time to appreciate the little things in life hahaha

 

My friend no lobang for me one la hahahah

[Angcheek]

This Wednesday

Food to try

https://eatbook.sg/pasir-panjang-food-centre/

 

Mee Pok and chicken rice are nice

 

Thereâs a parking area just in front of it

Or an alternative is 3 min walk with an entrance before the MRT pickup point

Actually the food there is not so fantastic.

 

Used to have a thaifood stall . That one not bad

[therock]

Actually the food there is not so fantastic.

 

Used to have a thaifood stall . That one not bad

 

Aiyah bro, it's the fellowship that's the most important... see you there bro?

You can choose another venue later on for SLK II, cheers

[therock]

190 likes... is this the highest ever for a single thread? Hope SLK feels better about himself :)

See you guys tomorrow... 

[Discoburg]

Do share photos of the meet up. I believe its a big group. 

190 likes... is this the highest ever for a single thread? Hope SLK feels better about himself :)

See you guys tomorrow... 

 

[SiLangKia]

190 likes... is this the highest ever for a single thread? Hope SLK feels better about himself :)

See you guys tomorrow... 

 

Thanks Bro!

At this point you should be searching for a new job. New environment will help. Once you get the job, tender straight away. No point staying in a constant stressful environment.

 

As for gf, 顺其自然lah. You still young, sure will have someone later.

 

Currently searching ! yeah that's my intention, as soon as i can get I'll leave. hahahah as for gf, don't feel like im that young alr la but it's ok just take it as it comes lo haha, don't have also nvm ba    

Go for a hard run and make your work-life decision after u cool down. 

XMM BGR issue is nothing one lah. You got ben shi, surely will meet even better Investment Grade AAA women 

 

Hahaha just recovered from a viral infection bro, had 40.3-40.7 degree fever twice over the past weeks since mid july, will run when I'm feeling fully well thanks hahaha

 

Waaaaaaa thanks for thinking I got ben shi, feel so honoured hahaha! waiting for the right one to come by lo

[SiLangKia]

For many people, life becomes very mundane after settling into patterns of sort. Imagine doing the same thing over and over for years. Sometimes it is good to have (new) hobbies to keep you distracted and make your life more colourful.

 

Off-hand I can think of is scuba diving which is quite addictive, not expensive if doing leisure diving in Malaysia or Indon every month. Or long-distance cycling, sure can join some kakais here if ask around. Or even go Ubin camping and do some bushcraft and maggi mee cooking and sleep in the wood. At least is better place to contemplate about life.

 

Or like me, recently I bought a inflatable kayak and intending to spice up my life by doing kayaking around Pulau Ubin, doing some camping and fishing over there, and eventually going Southern Islands for camping and snorkeling.

 

Really, doing something new that you have been putting off since young could be something that will help you find meaning in life. Maybe even doing backpack travelling every 6 months and  the planning part will sure keep you busy.

 

Take care.

 

Thanks for the recommendation! Might go get a diving certification soon and try it out, smth that's been on my mind for abit but nvr got around to it!

 

How's Kayaking? Is it very therapeutic ? 

 

Thanks Bro! Will think of smth new and out of routine to do!

Bungee jumping too

 

Without cord

 

 

Confirm all problems gone

 

After you! Demo for me please 

I'm thinking of karting but it's quite an expensive hobby

 

I've always wanted to try

 

 

 

 

 

until I saw the prices 

[SiLangKia]

I think distracted is the key word. When you are distracted doing new things in your life, you would be too busy to have negative thoughts and emo moment.  A person would only start to 胡思乱想 when their life become too routine, too monotonous and too free.

 

Yeah finding smth to distract me now hurhur 

When SLK reports that he is sad, everyone in MCF feels for him..

Like Job's friends who tore their clothes off and sat quietly with him, here we give likes and let him win the thread of the month (confirm chop - no 200 points, no go man!)

 

Who said likes are useless... whilst we can't be with you in person bro, we feel for you.

 

BUT...

 

Having said that

 

Firstly when you have cooled off, and do not have any 'vaccum' syndrome, I can intro you to some nice and very sweet young ladies ... they will give you diabetes man... I do the intro, the rest is up to you as they say...

 

Second

Come join me in Cambodia, do some social work... you won't complain about the MRT, because many places do not have train

No complaints about jams, because many places have no roads

 

In any case, we do kopi, I buy la... 

 

This is what I listen to when I feel blue:

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VtGZGBvb7ic

 

Thanks bro, really really appreciate the offer and the kindness! Seeyall tmr!

after reading, I also feel sibei emo liao.....    

 

Don't emo leh, your name tianmo not emo hahahah!

Don't emo, I'm sure more SYT XMM will run pass you in the next few days, cheer up 

Haha everyone gets that,

 

At one point of my career I also felt somewhat aimless so I decided take up the offer to run the India outsourcing team and get posted there for a year haha, Had to discard the lovely comfort of what Singapore had to offer and somehow I get more inspiration seeing less fortunate get by day to day (yeah I'm a nut job). So maybe you need to step out of the comfort zone and find yourself or find something to inspire you to find your calling. 

 

Or you can go meetup.com and socialize with others with the same interest (and find a gf at the same time   ). The MU mostly guys + got Radx so choose your poision LOL

 

 

Your work place at Vivo ah? Mine at Pasir Panjang, if got nothing better to do and fancy a kopi drop me a message  

 

That's an interesting direction you took! I think being in a different environment really helps put things into perspective, and you can begin to appreciate the opportunities/blessings you have:)

 

Yeah, need to step out and find smth to inspire me hahaha

 

meetup.com huh hahaha will check it out.. as long as no RadX shld be fine HAHA

 

Thanks for the jio seeyou tmr!

@silangkia, take a few days off, fly to hong kong and join their riots for a day or 2. If you like it, mayb can apply for a full time riot job, quite exciting i heard.

 

Hong kong xmm also mostly very chio, mayb can get a few new GF there rioting today in the day on the street, and rioting together in the bed at night..

 

Kill 3 bird with one stone...  

 

Hahaha they so fierce I humji HAHAHAAH .. only you can handle haha why not you go in my place  xD

Yah lor yah lor. See whether can find her among the crowds.

[mersaylee]

Sometimes making a wrong decision is better than not make any decision.

 

No direction? Just run or play pingpong like Forest Gump did...just focus and do that one thing at that moment of time in life...

 

Then when you look back at it...you’ll realise you’ve actually lived a full life.