Simplesilver 1st Gear September 11, 2009 Share September 11, 2009 Waah! Just 3hrs this thread was up, 200+ posts already!? You next time you don't bring wallet la, than you tell her you lost your wallet somewhere, get her to bring you to eat loh, see whether she walk away! (: ↡ Advertisement Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vextan 1st Gear September 11, 2009 Share September 11, 2009 30+ yo woman got 2 types. first type they have previous relationship experience, so they will make every effort in the new relationship to ensure it will work as they getting old. This type usually quite reasonable and easy to compromise second type, never have relationship before, u better run far far! good one ! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wbucket Clutched September 11, 2009 Share September 11, 2009 Knew a girl for months. became a couple. She made me pay for almost everything when we go out. She is very careful with her own money but everytime we go out spending she expect me to pay even pay for her maid and family. Hawker centres, cafes & restaurants. At hawker centres, i will 1st queue & order food for her then only i queue and order food for myself. Including food and drinks i must have queued at least 3 times. And u know each queue can be long esp. during meal times. Once when i didnt order her food but she has to go queue & order her own, she wasnt happy. maybe becos she ended up having to pay her own food tat time. another time, i dropped her off to order food in a restuarant so that i can go find parking space. When i came into restuarant she told me she havent pay for the food. But at this restaurant cashier counter, u will be made to pay right away upon food ordering. I was thinking maybe she told the cashier she didnt have money on her. So she waited for me to come and pay. Even her maid food she asked me to pay. Even when her parents want papers, she got me to buy. Is this normal? Or is it their divine right for girls to expect their guys to pay for everything when they are out? Or am i being too calculative?? Being too easy going (generous etc) and being a carrot seem no difference. No-one like to be the latter. I thought it is more normal for both to pay ie. sometimes guys pay and sometimes gals pay too. though guys pay more times. I am flabbergasted by this all. I feel for you, brother. This is a post a created last year on similar stuff. But mine don't go to the extend of getting me to pay for maids and stuff. Anyway, my advice is to bring this topic up for an discussion with her. Tell her you don't feel comfortable paying for her yet, or paying for her maid. That is what I did. For my story, she is my girlfriend now and we are happy together. http://www.mycarforum.com/index.php?showto...hl=\\ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yeshe Turbocharged September 11, 2009 Share September 11, 2009 Waah! Just 3hrs this thread was up, 200+ posts already!? You next time you don't bring wallet la, than you tell her you lost your wallet somewhere, get her to bring you to eat loh, see whether she walk away! (: maybe she will drive him home to collect his wallet and then ask him to pay for the petrol charges incurred Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Evoluzio Neutral Newbie September 11, 2009 Share September 11, 2009 I read until BTH. Tt's coz there's so much crapping around and the TS don't know what he wants! Quite funny the replies tho. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
KapitanE 1st Gear September 11, 2009 Share September 11, 2009 (edited) I feel for you, brother. This is a post a created last year on similar stuff. But mine don't go to the extend of getting me to pay for maids and stuff. Anyway, my advice is to bring this topic up for an discussion with her. Tell her you don't feel comfortable paying for her yet, or paying for her maid. That is what I did. For my story, she is my girlfriend now and we are happy together. http://www.mycarforum.com/index.php?showto...hl=\\ so............................................., you still paying??? Edited September 11, 2009 by KapitanE Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simplesilver 1st Gear September 11, 2009 Share September 11, 2009 maybe she will drive him home to collect his wallet and then ask him to pay for the petrol charges incurred Otherwise, have a friend to jaga his wallet first, say to gf wallet lost. Go home check, wallet not there what. How? ;D Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coder Clutched September 11, 2009 Share September 11, 2009 share a true story. two of my old colleague. a 40 yo divorce lady bring a 26 yo unmarried to a match making dinner arrange by a friend. the young one look better then elder one. but surprisingly, the 26 yo guy go after the 40 yo after that dinner i know both of them quite well. the 40yo lady is quite attractive because of her character. one of the best among the rest. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yeshe Turbocharged September 11, 2009 Share September 11, 2009 Otherwise, have a friend to jaga his wallet first, say to gf wallet lost. Go home check, wallet not there what. How? ;D gf will ask him go fly kite lah Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yeshe Turbocharged September 11, 2009 Share September 11, 2009 share a true story. two of my old colleague. a 40 yo divorce lady bring a 26 yo unmarried to a match making dinner arrange by a friend. the young one look better then elder one. but surprisingly, the 26 yo guy go after the 40 yo after that dinner i know both of them quite well. the 40yo lady is quite attractive because of her character. one of the best among the rest. becos the 40yo have past experience, so she knows the 'market' rate, easier to compromise on issues in life Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wbucket Clutched September 11, 2009 Share September 11, 2009 so............................................., you still paying??? Yes. But happy doing so now. Of course not all the time and definitely not like this case, so thick skin, don't pay and wait til TS come and pay. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wbucket Clutched September 11, 2009 Share September 11, 2009 gf will ask him go fly kite lah Fly fly lo, this kind of GF isn't desirable. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simplesilver 1st Gear September 11, 2009 Share September 11, 2009 gf will ask him go fly kite lah Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Santa Neutral Newbie September 11, 2009 Share September 11, 2009 my advise is to screw her until you song song already and get sick of her, then ditch her away... the problem is that i think TS got no chance to piak her that why now abit TL and find that is not justifiable to pay for all. if a women cannot contribute financially, she must be a good cook, and if she cannot cook, she must be great on bed. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zniper 2nd Gear September 11, 2009 Share September 11, 2009 dump her lah TS... pls for gdness sake, earn some pride for men... if she ask y, tell her the reason straight at her face and walk off... for a normal couple, housing shld be pay 50-50 imho... so in ur case i tink u will be paying 100% for everyting... if she earn more dan u, the more u lagi need to dump her... she is not the person worth ur love and time and money... stop wasting all these and look for better ones... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Milo Clutched September 11, 2009 Share September 11, 2009 i saw you before you look pleasant in your own way. at taka if i am not wrong. aiyo not me la. if u wan, i can show u my pic la Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yeshe Turbocharged September 11, 2009 Share September 11, 2009 Fly fly lo, this kind of GF isn't desirable. only desirable on bed !! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yeshe Turbocharged September 11, 2009 Share September 11, 2009 aiyo not me la. if u wan, i can show u my pic la show lah! ↡ Advertisement Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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